Buffy takes it 6 months at a time

Buffythedebtslayer

My friends want to go away for 3 days and I am going but I know it will cos issues with Mum. but frankly everything causes issues these days! 
I was hoping fun stuff would be with  D head but that is not happening. He still messages but I know it isn't going anywhere. it is just friendship which I will need to break off at some point as I think we all know I am in love and he doesn't reciprocate. I hope he disappears on his own - he is messaging less. 
I might go out for the day with a friend to the seaside. That would be nice. 
Anyhow got to clear up from dinner. I think I will have an early night tonight, busy day tomorrow.
(just dog groomers, shopping and then home to housework but round to my friend's for drinks and takeaway) 
thanks XXXXXX 

Sun_Addict

Sorry to hear things are so dire right now. I can’t believe how much the vet bills for the rabbit are. I think you need to cut off the ties with D Head if it’s not going anywhere. The sooner it’s done the sooner you can move on xx

Buffythedebtslayer

I think that too SA, sadly. It is very hard tho. He has been very supportive this last 6 months and to be fair before that too. But ultimately I must move on. I know a little of what I want and won't get it from him. 

Buffythedebtslayer

And re the rabbit, she is insured but she got ill 3 days after I got her and so it isn't covered, she has been hospitalised twice which is 200 a go and then the consults and vaccinations..... I think I am spolit as my other bunnies were fully insured and I went to the vets for everything now it is a bit of a shock to the system. 

beanielou

Blimey.
I thought my vets bill was bad!!

Buffythedebtslayer

Ok. I am REALLY SAD today. 
Like dragging myself round unhappy. You know when your chest hurts? took the dogs to the groomers, collected them. Need to shop for my sister. Buy us some lunch. I have no clue how much money I have as can't log in online as my little machine has packed up, so will need to find  a cash machine or try and go into the bank and see if they have one for me... 
I paid the CC off. 
Emergency fund stands at 2000 now  
Still it is done. I have a job. I am getting paid. I am ok. I don't have debt and I can keep paying my savings back. Car insurance and tax in November.
I am just having a sad. And need a nap. 
Auto pilot is the word. 

Buffythedebtslayer

Did the shopping, God M and S is expensive. I am shattered. Was proper grown up and got the card machine, checked my account. Have 50 pounds to my name. tho sister owes me for shopping so am good really. Too tired to be sad now, will nap XXX 

Sun_Addict

Don't you use an app for banking? I've got one for my bank and credit card and check them every day. It helps me keep on top of my finances. 

I think we all get these sad days and can't put a finger on why. Just put one foot in front of the other and plod on 😎

Buffythedebtslayer

I won't put my bank stuff on my phone, just because I work in a school and am wary. I now off out once I have had a shower and found the alcohol. 
I shall keep plodding SA XXX 

crazy_cat_lady

Just wanted to send you loads of love Buffy.