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It's stressful at the best of times but during this health crisis the tension will be magnified. I have a feeling the bank will be very helpful to you as you have access to your deposit and they won't want to lose it. Poor you this is v exasperating for you. Is there anything nice you can do to try to take your mind off it?
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Try to stay calm. The worst hasn't happened yet. All you can do is take the next step which is to try and get your mortgage offer extended.Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/252 -
@savingwannabe there isn't, everything I would do to unwind was beach or forest related.
@savingholmes I'm trying to get it extended, but I won't know for 3 - 4 weeks. It would have helped if the lender updated their site so I wouldn't have thought everything was ok weeks ago.Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.2 -
Solicitor has emailed, due to my detailed email he thinks I would qualify to exchange and complete, subject to mortgage offer extension being granted.
I've also started working on a backup plan, which would take a couple of years, but means I could go in as a cash buyer of a small 1 bed flat requiring work, further away from where my employer is, but I would be mortgage free. Just need to get together another £20k, based on today's selling prices. Then look to save again and buy where I want to live.Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.3 -
Sounds like you are working hard to find a solution, hope it works out for you xClearing the junk to travel light
Saving every single penny.
I will get my caravan3 -
Glad you've had what sounds like positive news from your Solicitor. Keeping my fingers (and toes) crossed for you that things work out quickly. X
I Believe.....
That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.
happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
but by getting rid of the things that make you unhappy3 -
I’m also keeping everything crossed for you MF 🤞0% credit card £1360 & 0% Car Loan £7500 ~ paid in full JAN 2020 = NOW DEBT FREE 🤗
House sale OCT 2022 = NOW MORTGAGE FREE 🤗
House purchase completed FEB 2023 🥳🍾 Left work. 🤗
Retired at 55 & now living off the equity £10k a year (until pensions start at 60 & 67).
Previous Savings diary https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5597938/get-a-grip/p1
Living off savings diary
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Can your broker not get you an answer any earlier?Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £174.8K Equity 32.77%
2) £3K Net savings after CCs 6/7/25
3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £22.5K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.1K) = 28.2/£127.5K target 22;12% updated 6/7
4) FI Age 60 income target £16.5/30K 55.1%
5) SIPP £4.6K updated 6/7/251 -
Saturday update:
No one can get their extension application pushed through above another, just have to wait my turn.
I may know next week about the extension, broker emailed me and confirmed the lender thanked for the payslips and probation reference from my manager.
At this stage I can't get my hopes up, so I've stopped planning for the flat in case it does fall through.
If I get the extension, my solicitor will get it all sorted out quickly.
I'm debating getting a part-time evening / weekend position, so it would fit round my working hours. So far I've looked at a few supermarkets but they are not recruiting in my localish area. I thought if I could get one evening and one weekend shift that would potentially be an extra £200 per month after deductions.
Also plotting my plan B, looking at the available very low cost properties in a reasonable area, how much I would need to go in as a cash buyer, how long it would realistically take to save on my wages etc. Starting to feel better knowing I've a backup plan, even if it does add another 2 years.
I can currently afford to cash buy a mobile home or with a bit more saving (6 months max) a flat in a very, very, very low cost area, however I had ruled the area out when I viewed the county I decided on. Properties are nice, the area / location isn't.
Potentially I can buy a flat in another county as a cash buyer, however the area is cheap for a reason and I had ruled that whole area / location out.
I need to feel safe where I live, be able to go to work without worrying about what I would be returning to etc.
Had roast chicken yesterday, which was good as I've wanted that for a while.
Today I had bacon, fried eggs and potato scone for lunch; I wanted bacon / fried eggs on toast but it was the best I could get hold of.
Haven't decided on tea yet.Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.2 -
Well done on planning ahead. I am 100% certain this house sale will happen. We got to be patient. I am saying we as I don't have lots to look forward to and you are doing something very exciting. Hug.Aiming for a minimal spend 20223
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