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  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    Sun_Addict wrote: »
    I feel for you because like me you always have that stumbling block of other blooming people xx :(


    yes, the constant negotiation and checking is tiring but it is part of loving someone. I do wonder if that part of the reason I stay so single, adding someone else to please or look after would probably finish me off completely.


    Do you think eating Fruit and Nut breaks my August Rules??
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • in_need_of_direction
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    Here’s a plus to being single. I had to explain to dh that they are called self help books for a reason and just because I sometimes buy them, it doesn’t make a good gift for him to buy for me!
    Mortgage at 01.01.14 £119,481.83:eek: today £0 Emergency fund £5.5/5.5k & £200/200 cash.:jWeight 24/02/19 14st 7lb now 12st determined to stop defining myself by my mistakes. Progress not perfection.:T100%through my 1% mortgage challenge. 100% through my pb challenge.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
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    in_need_of_direction wrote: »
    Here’s a plus to being single. I had to explain to dh that they are called self help books for a reason and just because I sometimes buy them, it doesn’t make a good gift for him to buy for me!

    Oh poor misguided well meaning and probably tactless OH! I would want to say bless him whilst simultaneously slapping him round the face if he were mine!

    Mind you looking at my extensive collection I think you would be hard pressed to find one I didn't have!! :o:o:o:o:o

    XXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
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    in_need_of_direction wrote: »
    Here’s a plus to being single. I had to explain to dh that they are called self help books for a reason and just because I sometimes buy them, it doesn’t make a good gift for him to buy for me!
    :rotfl::rotfl:
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    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
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    I have to go and see my friend today, the one that was suicidal the last time I saw her.

    I am really not looking forward to it. I hope she is ok. The situation is worse than before so I am not sure what I find.

    It is also going to be expensive since she has no money and I will be paying for everything.

    Ugh. Not happy today.

    still, this too will pass right?

    XXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • crazy_cat_lady
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    It will indeed pass Buffy. You're a good person and you deserve to feel better than you do. Much love :kiss:
    Not giving up
    Working hard to pay off my debt
    Time to take back control
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6290156/crazy-cat-lady-chapter-5-trying-to-recover-from-the-pandemic/p1?new=1
  • beanielou
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    crazy_cat_lady wrote: »
    It will indeed pass Buffy. You're a good person and you deserve to feel better than you do. Much love :kiss:

    From me too xxx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    A bizarre day............

    so after I posted here I walked the dogs and had breakfast. Then I felt violently sick. Threw up and got a migraine. so I didn't go anywhere! It was kinda fortunate as mum wasn't so good and I didn't want to leave her.

    Tonight i did go out and see some friends did me the world of good.

    Head is killing tho. ugh.

    XXX
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • Buffythedebtslayer
    Buffythedebtslayer Posts: 18,924 Forumite
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    Head still killing me.

    I have to take Mum to her blood test and meet some friends for lunch. And walk the dogs.

    I still haven't done my returns. Must do that, CC is a disaster :(

    Can't keep track of anything today.

    I just wish I could get away alone somewhere and just sleep without worrying. without any "have tos" I am pretty sure that is what we all want. sorry head is really bad.
    Nevertheless she persisted.
  • beanielou
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    Always a bed here for you Buffster xxx
    I am a Forum Ambassador and I support the Forum Team on Mortgage Free Wannabe & Local Money Saving Scotland & Disability Money Matters. If you need any help on those boards, do let me know.Please note that Ambassadors are not moderators. Any post you spot in breach of the Forum Rules should be reported via the report button , or by emailing forumteam@moneysavingexpert.com. All views are my own & not the official line of Money Saving Expert.

    Lou~ Debt free Wanabe No 55 DF 03/14.**Credit card debt free 30/06/10~** MFW. Finally mortgage free O2/ 2021****
    "A large income is the best recipe for happiness I ever heard of" Jane Austen in Mansfield Park.
    ***Fall down seven times,stand up eight*** ~~Japanese proverb.     ***Keep plodding*** Out of debt, out of danger. ***Be the difference.***
    One debt remaining. Home improvement loan.
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