I will cut my coat according to my cloth. {Edited by Forum team} 2019

thorsoak

I misunderstood your post Mooloo - thought that DS son was staying overnight ....the trouble with reading messages! Of course he needs support from good friends x

-taff

Make sure you're not dehydrated, I get cramp constantly if I am.

Chrystal

Reading your post about little boy calling the Monster by Mums name made me cry Mooloo. God knows how it made you and DS feel, but it will hopefully bring home fully to DS what a toxic relationship that was, and make it easier for him to move on.
Cuddles and laughter sounds just the right medicine needed for the little ones, and I hope and pray that things are quickly resolved on a permanent basis. (((hugs))) XX

whiteguineapig

Mooloo you'v probably already thought of this but can DS start to remove his name from all financial affairs of his ex girlfriend and flat, I am thinking of council tax and electric etc
Hope you'r week away goes smoothly.

freddie2

I stumbled across this thread so haven’t read all of it but felt I had to respond as I am concerned with regards to how much information you are putting on a public site. It took me 5 minutes to find out your name, you sons name, his partners name and even the children’s names!
Would be awful if this was used against you or your son in terms of the family’s right to privacy!

Both_Feet_on_Terra_Firma

freddie2 wrote: »

I stumbled across this thread so haven’t read all of it but felt I had to respond as I am concerned with regards to how much information you are putting on a public site. It took me 5 minutes to find out your name, you sons name, his partners name and even the children’s names!
Would be awful if this was used against you or your son in terms of the family’s right to privacy!

Why would you do so much research into someone you don't know or who has no links to you seriously odd

freddie2

To illustrate how easy it is!!!
My professional background is safeguarding and the use of social media is increasingly being raised. I was actually trying to be helpful as from what I have read it appears that Mooloo and her family are doing their best!

Both_Feet_on_Terra_Firma

freddie2 wrote: »

To illustrate how easy it is!!!
My professional background is safeguarding and the use of social media is increasingly being raised. I was actually trying to be helpful as from what I have read it appears that Mooloo and her family are doing their best!

If you read through SS have already spoken to Moo regarding this as long as no names are mentioned on here there is not an issue so i am sure that she is following their advice

LKRDN_Morgan

Both_Feet_on_Terra_Firma wrote: »

If you read through SS have already spoken to Moo regarding this as long as no names are mentioned on here there is not an issue so i am sure that she is following their advice

Reading through years and years of posting is not a prerequisite to making a comment. The poster raised a very valid point. There’s no way SS would be happy if a complete stranger can find out so much info from here.

Savvy_sewing

The information about us is out there, it's rather too late to undo it.
If anyone wants to dig up information by research then unfortunately they will.
I am not going out to buy a property. I am looking for Venues for my business and a place to rent for my Mum not me.
I will have every jolly I want thanks very much.
I can spend my money how ever I see fit. If I want to buy a designer handbag it would be more expensive than my business trip. Yes I will combine some rest and recouperation as often as I dam well like. I don't ask what you choose to spend your money on?

I did try to change my account but I was reported for having two names. So if unfortunately my name is now known there is little that I can do as MSE wouldn't allow me to start another name.
Unfortunately after 12 years on here then I have become less anonymous, but then most people don't tend to go and research on posters. Unless they have an ulterior motive.
I don't need people fighting over my life. It is what it is. Messy.
Perhaps the reference to Emmerdale is your opinion. I don't watch soap dramas because I unfortunately seem to be living it, except I am not being paid for my story.
If you think it's Emerdale then you can decide if it is fiction then. Maybe I am writing a storyline who knows??

I am unwell today and I am going to bed now as the police have finally been.
I totally understand that my Son was no Angel, but I also know that he has grown up immensely and is stepping up to the mark now. We cannot change the past we can only improve life from here on.
I apologise if my opinion of the gf is unsavoury but I cannot believe that her actions are coming from motherly love, and more from spite. I would accept that if I am proved wrong I will say so.
Now Dgd is home, luckily she missed all the trauma, and hopefully peace will rein soon.