It's Complicated

BrassicWoman

you are doing brilliantly.


we are all cheering you on!

last_mile

I feel like today might be the day.
No one event moment just that it feels it.
On Fridays we sometimes get to finish work early (like school kids) if all our work is done etc etc.
If this happens I’ll be 90mins ahead of my normal schedule which will give me time in the house alone.
Will see how the day goes

Red-Squirrel_2

Come on, you can do it!

How great would it feel if in 12 hours this relationship was over and done and you were chilled out at your friend!!!8217;s house with a glass of wine?

freshstart11

I really hope you can. sounds like could be the best time x

efes_shareholder

Having done similar myself , I'm cheering you on

It won't be easy but it will be so worth it

Times may seem turbulent in the early weeks but without a storm there can be no rainbow

Take care of you first and what you need

There is nothing worse then finishing work and not being home ( this was me sitting outside my house for an hour for probably the best part of 2 years )

It takes strength and courage , you have both

Trust me , you wont regret it

BrassicWoman

last_mile wrote: »

I feel like today might be the day.
No one event moment just that it feels it.
On Fridays we sometimes get to finish work early (like school kids) if all our work is done etc etc.
If this happens I’ll be 90mins ahead of my normal schedule which will give me time in the house alone.
Will see how the day goes

Honestly, I'd just ask my boss nicely. Doesn't need full details, just that you have an urgent personal matter to deal with.

winspiration

Fingers crossed for you that all goes as smoothly as possible - here's to the start of your new life!

lessonlearned

Found your thread yesterday.

I'm rooting for you. Sending you strength and virtual support. You can do it......

last_mile

So no early finish for me today
Not sure what to do now. I definately what get home before him and even if I did I wouldn’t have time to collect the things I want.
I have been invited to a night at my friends house as mentioned and I really want to go but I know he won’t like it after being out last Friday. So I probably won’t go unless I leave and that’s looking unlikely.
I’m feeling slightly defeated now

Mummy2cheekymonkeys

You can do It! When you get home just tell him you are going to the party. He will kick off but you know that anyway. Pack as much as you can and GO. When he texts asking when you are coming home tell him you're not! The fact you are feeling deflated is because you were set on doing it today. So do it today. Strick while the iron is hot!!!