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  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,534 Forumite
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    Still as busy as ever!
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  • lucielle
    lucielle Posts: 11,534 Forumite
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    Hope the chaps manage to come up trumps
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    Total Debt Dec 07 £59875.83 Overdrafts £2900,New Debt Figure ZERO !!!!!!:j 08/06/2013
    Lucielle's Daring Debt Free Journey
    DFD Before we Die!!!! Long Haul Supporter #124
  • Its good to trust our intuition...
    If you have built castles in the air, your work should not be lost; that is where they should be. Now put the foundations under them

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  • savingholmes
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    Thanks Lucielle and DIA - yes intuition can save us from many misadventures.  I also assembled a mini grey storage ottaman ( £15 from BnM) which looks smart, can hold laundry or clutter and can be sat on. My cleaner came today which was fab. She really likes my paintings and has been doing some of her own too and shared her photos - they are lovely. I've rearranged my front room some more but need continue decluttering. I am going to remove a whicker basket drawer set from the lounge - and reduce it's contents and maybe get rid of it altogether. May try and sell it on FB.

    I have moved the cabinet I emptied the other day to be next to my desk to create an L shaped work zone in my living room. They are the same width as my desk - so two side by side is giving me the right sort of width that I need it I add an office chair in here. I may buy some more painting canvases  as I am really enjoying painting currently. I still need to get past my block on selling stuff - it's not just my art - it's everything - we tend to give it away rather than sell. Still art is therapeutic for me and keeps me sane. I may get a second lamp to match the one I bought last week as I really like it in the space and it would help tie the room together. 

    I may get the friend coming over tomorrow to quote for the patio and drive widening as well - it may be that we could re-add that to our list - even if it is next spring rather than now.  It depends what their quote came in at. The friend that is coming to quote - went down the place with land route a few years ago - and is now doing more manual work rather than the manager role he used to have but seems to be loving it. It would be nice to rekindle that friendship too - even if C19 limits our options for meeting up.
    Achieve FIRE/Mortgage Neutrality in 2030
    1) MFW Nov 21 £202K now £172.5K Equity 36.11%
    2) £1.6K Net savings after CCs 14/8/25
    3) Mortgage neutral by 06/30 (AVC £25.6K + Lump Sums DB £4.6K + (25% of SIPP 1.2K) = 31.4/£127.5K target 24.6% 1/9/25
    (If took bigger lump sum = 53.3K or 41.8%)
    4) FI Age 60 income target £17.1/30K 57% (if mortgage and debts repaid - need more otherwise)
    (If bigger lump sum £15.8/30K 52.67%)
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  • Gut feeling is a wonderful benefit and should be listened to. The rough price sounds a lot more realistic! 

    Selling things means the money can go towards projects. It's a case of weighing up what can be sold and what is negligible and is fine to be given away.

    It would be great if you could rekindle the friendship, you would learn so much from him and have a better start rather than doing everything from scratch.
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
  • That price seems more reasonable, definitely have a feeling about trades people if you're not comfortable you're probably right!

    H x
  • badmemory
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    edited 24 September 2020 at 5:25PM

    That price seems more reasonable, definitely have a feeling about trades people if you're not comfortable you're probably right!

    H x
    I think this is especially true if you are a woman.  I think we should be able to rent a man who will be able nod wisely at what they say, because I am so fed up with them looking at me like I am mad when I know something about the job they are supposed to be doing.

    Don't get me started on my kitchen.  My "friend" was here when a friend of his came to quote for my kitchen & he knows we don't live together so it is my kitchen.  So my friend said what he would like & I said well I don't want that I want this, so the guy said he would quote for both.  Do I even need to tell you what the (one set of) drawings were?  Incandescent is a very good word.  Guess who won't get the job.

  • Why was your friend even saying what he wanted for?  It's your kitchen!  The least he could have said was 'she wants xyz'.  Both as bad as each other!
    What I do not give, you must never take by force.
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