My journey to a debt free life

arsenalbarnie

:bdaycake:Happy Birthday OBL. Hope you have a lovely day pottering and you enjoyed the meal and film last night.

Horrible re the incident at work. We had some sad things happen when I was nursing. I seemed to be able to cope with it when I was younger, I couldn’t now. Hope you enjoy your riding tomorrow.

HairyHandofDartmoor

Happy birthday OBL :bdaycake:. I hope you get some nice presents and have a lovely day .

Onebrokelady

Cherryfudge wrote: »

It's hard when something distressing happens at work: you can't get away from it and confidentiality gets in the way of instinctive talking therapy. Does your work have a staff support system that could listen when you need it?

I think the book buying was a great idea: a small treat can help a bit when you're down and it IS nearly your birthday after all.

Hope you have a lovely day tomorrow! x

We are supposed to have debriefing sessions after something like this but they don't always happen,I'm not sure why I was so affected because I wasn't involved in it I only heard about it because the staff were upset and talking about it the next day,it was particularly horrible though I must say

Onebrokelady

Honeysucklelou2 wrote: »

Would bark chippings be any good for a chicken pen? I guess you'd need sanitising powder though for long term use.

Hope you have a lovely few days off work.

You can use woodchip in a chickennrun but not bark chipping because they hide all sorts of nasty things,some people do use them but you have to change them quite often or they smell really bad,I use a powered sanitizer called Stalosan in my run,my system is to use sawdust, I out it in their house and which I poo pick every day so it stays really clean, then when I clean the house out that bedding goes out into the run and I put fresh stuff in the house, i only change the run sawdust every month because it's like a deep litter,the old sawdust from the run goes in the compost pile

Onebrokelady

arsenalbarnie wrote: »

:bdaycake:Happy Birthday OBL. Hope you have a lovely day pottering and you enjoyed the meal and film last night.

Horrible re the incident at work. We had some sad things happen when I was nursing. I seemed to be able to cope with it when I was younger, I couldn’t now. Hope you enjoy your riding tomorrow.

Thank you AB, we had lovely food and my DD bought me a yummy birthday cake so we were quite stuffed,we didn't watch a film in the end, we decided to watch the series Good Omens so we watched a couple of episodes of that, we really enjoyed it so will have to finish it now

I'm just chilling today doing some reading and maybe some sewing,I was going to do some bits in the garden but it's raining

Onebrokelady

HairyHandofDartmoor wrote: »

Happy birthday OBL :bdaycake:. I hope you get some nice presents and have a lovely day .

Thanks Hairy,I requested money for my birthday this year so I can spend it on riding :j DD2 also got me a couple of books because she likes people to have something to unwrap on the day :rotfl: all ive done so far today is take the dog out,I'm being very lazy, it's raining so I'm not doing my bits in the garden today but I am going to read my current book and maybe do some sewing

redofromstart

Happy Birthday OBL, I'm with your daughter on the something to unwrap thing .

Sun_Addict

Happy Birthday OBL, have a wonderful day

I agree it's nice to have something to unwrap on your birthday.

Cherryfudge

Happy birthday OBL, what a good idea to get money to got riding!

Onebrokelady

redofromstart wrote: »

Happy Birthday OBL, I'm with your daughter on the something to unwrap thing .

Thanks Redo, we decided not to go mad with buying stuff anymore seeing as we are decluttering but we make an exception for books, I will probably re home them when I have read them and of course DD will read them too so we both benefit