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  • RelievedSheff
    RelievedSheff Posts: 12,691 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about your friend.  :'(
  • ladyholly
    ladyholly Posts: 3,936 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear about your friend.
  • Sun_Addict
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    I’m struggling to get my head around it to be honest. She didn’t deserve this after going through so much in the past few years. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • Chrystal
    Chrystal Posts: 2,000 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear your sad news.  Sometimes life makes no sense at all.  (((hugs))) X
    I Believe.....
    That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.
    Sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.

    Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery
    Today is a gift. That's why it is called the present.

    happiness isn't achieved by getting extra things,
    but by getting rid of the things that make you unhappy
  • foxgloves
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    My sympathies for the loss of your friend, @Sun_Addict. I lost one of my best friends to an unexpected death 5 years ago. She was only in her early 50s & you are right that death at that age just seems wrong on every level.
    F x

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    2) To read 100 books (36/100) 3) The Shrinking of Foxgloves 6.5kg/30kg

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  • alt80
    alt80 Posts: 4,641 Forumite
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    Sorry to hear about your loss, @Sun_Addict
  • Sun_Addict
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    Happy Saturday 🥂

    Not doing a lot today, my eyes are still sore and puffy and I don’t feel 100%. 

    I need to go to Mr T then Wilko in search of cat litter. Also need a few other bits but not much. Both shops are a fair distance away so will get some steps in. Mr SA and the dog will come too so the dog will get a good walk. 

    Also need to do loads of laundry and general cleaning/tidying. The weather is dry and sunny so hopefully will get the washing dry outside. 

    Tonight’s dinner is veggie burger, wedges and salad. Rose cava in the fridge chilling. 
    I get knocked down but I get up again (Chumbawamba, Tubthumping)
  • WinterWarrior
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    I’m so sorry about your friend. It really seemed like her time was up, no matter what, but she fought such a brave fight. 
    I laughed at the covid test people trying to entice you in, it made me think of the chitty chitty bang bang child collector with a giant net on a pole…or possibly the adult equivalent of ‘do you want to see some puppies’ 🤣 You did right to rush on home, no good can come of that 😁
    I hope you feel better soon ⭐️
    Not all who wander are lost - J.R.R.Tolkien
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  • Humdinger1
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    @Sun_Addict so sorry to hear about your friend.   It might be too early and I'm sure you've thought of this, but is there something positive you could do? Make a donation; do a sponsored walk? Not sure what your spiritual views may be but I often find myself sensing loved ones once I'm over the initial shock.   It isn't fair.  As ever, you are a shining light to us all.  Love Humdinger xx 
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