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  • AdamPD
    AdamPD Posts: 217 Forumite
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    Ah no we have two lodgers, in two rooms, sorry!

    But the largest room is £120 a week, the smallest (small double) is £90 a week. So yea, £210 a week, £10,920 a year.
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    Did you manage to buy out your uncle? Reading through some of your old posts this is a really, really complicated situation and goes a lot deeper than a couple of hundred quid in your dad's pocket.
    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • AdamPD
    AdamPD Posts: 217 Forumite
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    Sadly no, I know, I really do need legal advice on this mess.

    I don't earn enough to get a mortgage into my name exclusively (Even though my dad is OK with that), because he's 75, so can't be on the mortgage. (I DO earn enough, but I still need another 2 years of accounts to prove so).
    The uncle, well, I don't know if he will ever agree to come off the deeds with or without a cash offer for his share, plus his legal share as I understand it, is 1/3rd of the equity, which has increased a lot since we bought it, so there's no way I could offer it to him.
  • pearl123
    pearl123 Posts: 2,082 Forumite
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    edited 10 November 2017 at 1:28PM
    Firstly, the £200 is his to use, as he so wishes. And no I do not think he should be offering it for everyone's benefit.

    A much bigger possible problem seems to be that he is earning money from having lodgers plus getting Pension Credit. If there is any savings in the Bank over £10.000. Then there is normally a reduction in pension credit. All earnings should to be declared.

    I suggest you contact the Citizens Advice Bureau. They are fantastic looking into financial affairs. They don't seen to judge people. You can be completely open with them.
  • AdamPD
    AdamPD Posts: 217 Forumite
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    Got some legal advice on my position with regards to the house and mortgage, was as bleak as I thought it might be.

    The uncle who moved out 5 years ago, despite leaving us with 5k of arrears and not paying anything towards the mortgage for 5 years, has equal share of any equity in the house.
    Even my dad's 40k deposit has to be split equally as well.

    So now I have no idea if I even want to stay here, I might stay and just put aside money every month, because I'm barely paying anything in terms of bills here, due to the lodgers, but I also want my own space

    Ah well. :)
  • Ames
    Ames Posts: 18,459 Forumite
    AdamPD wrote: »
    Got some legal advice on my position with regards to the house and mortgage, was as bleak as I thought it might be.

    The uncle who moved out 5 years ago, despite leaving us with 5k of arrears and not paying anything towards the mortgage for 5 years, has equal share of any equity in the house.
    Even my dad's 40k deposit has to be split equally as well.

    So now I have no idea if I even want to stay here, I might stay and just put aside money every month, because I'm barely paying anything in terms of bills here, due to the lodgers, but I also want my own space

    Ah well. :)

    Where did you get this advice?

    Did you ask about how to address the tax arrears you owe?
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    Unless I say otherwise 'you' means the general you not you specifically.
  • AdamPD
    AdamPD Posts: 217 Forumite
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    This advice was from a solicitor, I haven't got advice yet on the tax issue, I plan to do that tomorrow.
  • pearl123
    pearl123 Posts: 2,082 Forumite
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    AdamPD wrote: »
    I'm barely paying anything in terms of bills here, due to the lodgers, but I also want my own space

    Ah well. :)

    You've slightly contradicted yourself. Your original post seemed to be a complaint about bills and not splitting them fairly but above you stated you are barely paying anything?
  • AdamPD
    AdamPD Posts: 217 Forumite
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    pearl123 wrote: »
    You've slightly contradicted yourself. Your original post seemed to be a complaint about bills and not splitting them fairly but above you stated you are barely paying anything?

    I meant, compared to what I would be paying if I left and rented.

    I'd be looking at £500-600 for rent alone for a flat, plus bills.

    Where as here, it's a lot lower.
  • sammyjammy
    sammyjammy Posts: 8,065 Forumite
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    AdamPD wrote: »
    Got some legal advice on my position with regards to the house and mortgage, was as bleak as I thought it might be.

    The uncle who moved out 5 years ago, despite leaving us with 5k of arrears and not paying anything towards the mortgage for 5 years, has equal share of any equity in the house.
    Even my dad's 40k deposit has to be split equally as well.

    So now I have no idea if I even want to stay here, I might stay and just put aside money every month, because I'm barely paying anything in terms of bills here, due to the lodgers, but I also want my own space

    Ah well. :)


    I think you need to find a new solicitor, this is nonsense!
    "You've been reading SOS when it's just your clock reading 5:05 "
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