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  • gonzo127
    gonzo127 Posts: 4,482 Forumite
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    Primrose wrote: »
    Well I’m sure the results of your biopsy will be concerning you. All of us on here will have our fingers crossed for you. It easy to ask oneself why all these worrying things seem to fall on one’s head at the same time.

    haha yes it never rains but it pours, and yes it concerns, but less than i think it should, i have kind of managed to put it in its little box of 'cant do anything about this' since it either will be or wont be, so i have no way of affecting the outcome.

    and thanks for the thoughts, im sure it will be ok and if its not, well i guess i will deal with that then :) but any which way, i am not expecting to hear anything about it till early next week. could be a fun week next week hey if everything goes to !!!!
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  • gonzo127
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    Had the biopsy now just got to wait for the result. Been driving around aimlessly this evening though. Nearly drove to see her as I really do need the 'old' her right now someone who would just cuddle up to me and tell me everything is going to be ok and that we will face whatever the result is together �� feeling really down at the moment and can't even be bothered to take myself to the gym
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  • gonzo127 wrote: »
    Had the biopsy now just got to wait for the result. Been driving around aimlessly this evening though. Nearly drove to see her as I really do need the 'old' her right now someone who would just cuddle up to me and tell me everything is going to be ok and that we will face whatever the result is together �� feeling really down at the moment and can't even be bothered to take myself to the gym

    Oh, you poor love. I remember those times so well, and there's not a thing I can say to make it any better. How long is it until you your results back?
  • gonzo127
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    JayJay100 wrote: »
    Oh, you poor love. I remember those times so well, and there's not a thing I can say to make it any better. How long is it until you your results back?

    Monday or Tuesday at the latest
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  • gonzo127 wrote: »
    Monday or Tuesday at the latest

    That's good. Not too long to wait, which is a bonus.
  • gonzo127
    gonzo127 Posts: 4,482 Forumite
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    JayJay100 wrote: »
    That's good. Not too long to wait, which is a bonus.

    One of the bonuses of the 2 week target for potential cancer diagnosis
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  • Carer
    Carer Posts: 296 Forumite
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    So sorry to hear you're going through this on top of everything else.

    I too had a biopsy yesterday on a suspicious lump and have to wait a week for the results. I know exactly how you're feeling.

    In my case it's almost certain it's cancer it's just the variety and stage it's at that is unknown still. My mind is a whirlwind of what if's and is constantly jumping through a whole range of emotions.

    Today I've done everything from researching every possible outcome to mentally writing my will and planning my funeral.

    I have everything crossed for you for a good outcome.
  • gonzo127
    gonzo127 Posts: 4,482 Forumite
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    edited 3 November 2017 at 12:47AM
    Carer wrote: »
    So sorry to hear you're going through this on top of everything else.

    I too had a biopsy yesterday on a suspicious lump and have to wait a week for the results. I know exactly how you're feeling.

    In my case it's almost certain it's cancer it's just the variety and stage it's at that is unknown still. My mind is a whirlwind of what if's and is constantly jumping through a whole range of emotions.

    Today I've done everything from researching every possible outcome to mentally writing my will and planning my funeral.

    I have everything crossed for you for a good outcome.

    I havent actually researched anything as I don't really want to know. If that makes any sense. In a sick sort of way it's been handy having these problems to worry about instead. But tonight feeling overwhelmed as the biopsy has kind off brought it all home

    Sorry so wrapped up in my own misery at the moment, forgot to say that I hope you get good results yourself
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  • gonzo127
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    just thought I would let you all know I actually messaged her last night and asked to meet her on Sunday which she has agreed to. trying not to let my hope get the better of me. but that is rather hard to do
    Drop a brand challenge
    on a £100 shop you might on average get 70 items save
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    20p per product = £14 a week ~ £56 a month
    30p per product = £21 a week ~ £84 a month (or in other words one weeks shoping at the new price)
  • Primrose
    Primrose Posts: 10,712 Forumite
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    Of course. It’s going to be an important meeting for you. I hope you get some honest answers to your questions. You’ve played by the book on this one, doing as requested despite the emotional pain it has caused you. I hope you get the outcome that is right for you so that you can now get on with dealing with the other not insignificant issues currently impacting on your life.
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