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The NEW waiting to exchange thread...
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@Firsttime2021 - good luck, I really hope it works out for you!
@ChickenSandwichK - good luck too! fingers crossed
@laura_lau - I'm so sorry about your terrible lender. all such a disgrace
+ congrats/good luck to everyone else and to any commenters' posts I've managed to miss!
We exchanged yesterday afternoon, with completion set for todayI'm so excited to pick up the keys to our first house!
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ChickenSandwichK said:Firsttime2021 said:Best of luck to everyone who is hoping to complete today and make stamp duty.
we are supposed to be simultaneously doing exchange and completion today. Although I don’t hold out much hope.Fingers crossed for everyone0 -
m4x1ne said:@Firsttime2021 - good luck, I really hope it works out for you!
@ChickenSandwichK - good luck too! fingers crossed
@laura_lau - I'm so sorry about your terrible lender. all such a disgrace
+ congrats/good luck to everyone else and to any commenters' posts I've managed to miss!
We exchanged yesterday afternoon, with completion set for todayI'm so excited to pick up the keys to our first house!
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Kaysee24 said:Best of luck to everyone completing today, hope all goes smoothly.
Our removals are moving our buyer too what could go wrong 🤣🤣🤣
hope All goes well1 -
cheeky-peach said:@laura_lau are we allowed to ask who your lender is please? I really feel for you. I can't imagine tbh
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My lender is Saffron Building Society. Service has been appalling since the start, to be honest, it took them three months to send me a mortgage offer and they would request one document at a time, only every couple of weeks. It took them 1 month at the end to have it go through the underwriters, as they had a queue of 21 days, and whenever they sent an enquiry or requested a new document, you would end up at the bottom of the queue again, and so on. When I finally got my offer on 1st May, I thought the nightmare with them was over, but clearly they applied the same philosophy to the release of funds. Clearly they hadn't looked at those documents when we sent them over a month ago, I think it was around 6 weeks ago, they only looked at them on the day they were supposed to release the funds, so this past Monday.
So, yesterday, after spending the afternoon to arrange the zoom call with the solicitor and scramble to put together the documents they were requiring, and significantly disrupting my partner's work day (he's self employed, so he actually had to cancel appointments with clients with potential money loss) the lender came back saying that, quite opposite to their previous email where they were saying it was ok for it to happen via zoom and for the solicitor to sign it after receiving via post, the solicitor needed to be witnessing the signing of the deed of consent by my boyfriend. Their argument is rather ridiculous to me, but maybe I'm biased: they argue that this is a legal binding document, and it must be witnessed by a solicitor in person. I told my solicitor that I find it really funny that this deed of consent, which most people sign without even consulting a solicitor, as other posters here have confirmed, let alone having anyone witnessing it, is in their eyes a more legal binding document than my own mortgage deed, as I was able to sign my mortgage deed in the presence of a general public witness, with no presence whatsoever of a solicitor in the room. It's beyond ridiculous. Anyway, this now will have to wait until Friday, when hopefully we will be able to get an appointment for my boyfriend to go to a practice, and sign it there and then, get the solicitor's signature, so that I can send it back to my solicitor in the quickest way,
So, if this goes well, I might still be on track to exchange next week, which is rather late because of our rental agreement, but at least I am not impacted by the stamp duty holiday deadline because I'm below the June threshold. Of course, a good quarter of the money I'm saving through the stamp duty is now taken by the new solicitor we had to appoint just for this stupid thing, and this without counting the years of life I lost yesterday in just a few hours!Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/660 -
laura_lau said:cheeky-peach said:@laura_lau are we allowed to ask who your lender is please? I really feel for you. I can't imagine tbh
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My lender is Saffron Building Society. Service has been appalling since the start, to be honest, it took them three months to send me a mortgage offer and they would request one document at a time, only every couple of weeks. It took them 1 month at the end to have it go through the underwriters, as they had a queue of 21 days, and whenever they sent an enquiry or requested a new document, you would end up at the bottom of the queue again, and so on. When I finally got my offer on 1st May, I thought the nightmare with them was over, but clearly they applied the same philosophy to the release of funds. Clearly they hadn't looked at those documents when we sent them over a month ago, I think it was around 6 weeks ago, they only looked at them on the day they were supposed to release the funds, so this past Monday.
So, yesterday, after spending the afternoon to arrange the zoom call with the solicitor and scramble to put together the documents they were requiring, and significantly disrupting my partner's work day (he's self employed, so he actually had to cancel appointments with clients with potential money loss) the lender came back saying that, quite opposite to their previous email where they were saying it was ok for it to happen via zoom and for the solicitor to sign it after receiving via post, the solicitor needed to be witnessing the signing of the deed of consent by my boyfriend. Their argument is rather ridiculous to me, but maybe I'm biased: they argue that this is a legal binding document, and it must be witnessed by a solicitor in person. I told my solicitor that I find it really funny that this deed of consent, which most people sign without even consulting a solicitor, as other posters here have confirmed, let alone having anyone witnessing it, is in their eyes a more legal binding document than my own mortgage deed, as I was able to sign my mortgage deed in the presence of a general public witness, with no presence whatsoever of a solicitor in the room. It's beyond ridiculous. Anyway, this now will have to wait until Friday, when hopefully we will be able to get an appointment for my boyfriend to go to a practice, and sign it there and then, get the solicitor's signature, so that I can send it back to my solicitor in the quickest way,
So, if this goes well, I might still be on track to exchange next week, which is rather late because of our rental agreement, but at least I am not impacted by the stamp duty holiday deadline because I'm below the June threshold. Of course, a good quarter of the money I'm saving through the stamp duty is now taken by the new solicitor we had to appoint just for this stupid thing, and this without counting the years of life I lost yesterday in just a few hours!2 -
I'm embarking on house sale number 17 and should be ready to go to market in the next couple of weeks weather depending as back of house still need to be painted and another driveway finished
After reading through the different scenarios I'm pretty glad I've waited until after the SDT deadline ...solicitors must have earned their money these past few months !!
Hope all those waiting get good news soon and hope to be joining in properly very soon0 -
Hope everyone who is trying manages to complete today.
We're bowing out. Our sellers have pulled out today. Game over.0 -
jenni_fer said:Hope everyone who is trying manages to complete today.
We're bowing out. Our sellers have pulled out today. Game over.Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/660 -
jenni_fer said:Hope everyone who is trying manages to complete today.
We're bowing out. Our sellers have pulled out today. Game over.0
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