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Octothorpe said:Irishpearce26 said:Firsttime2021 said:Irishpearce26 said:Firsttime2021 said:Good luck to all hoping to exchange/complete today.
Our solicitor said we can do both today providing my parents solicitor is available...don’t hold out much hope.
our solicitor yesterday morning even gave out his personal mobile to the solicitor on the other side so we can get this done and she still left at 4.30!! With so many people aiming to complete by tomorrow to make STLD I don’t understand why you would do this.Will be on edge all day waiting for calls/email etc. Parents calling theirs this morning, I rattled off an email last night to ours saying if we can exchange and complete today it would be preferred.They knew mum and dad would need to sign and have witnessed an insolvency document in April, the solicitor didn’t tell my parents this till 2 weeks ago. They were also emailing the wrong person to our side and were uncontactable for weeks.They have been incompetent at every turn.
I don't know about you, but if my tasks aren't complete I would expect to stay to do them.
If I had a commitment scheduled for a client and some extenuating circumstances meant i couldn't fullfill it, I would be expected to communicate that to said client. Not just disappear.
Blindly supporting the solicitor in this instance just wreaks of being obtuse for the sake of it.0 -
Firsttime2021 said:Irishpearce26 said:Firsttime2021 said:Irishpearce26 said:Firsttime2021 said:Good luck to all hoping to exchange/complete today.
Our solicitor said we can do both today providing my parents solicitor is available...don’t hold out much hope.
our solicitor yesterday morning even gave out his personal mobile to the solicitor on the other side so we can get this done and she still left at 4.30!! With so many people aiming to complete by tomorrow to make STLD I don’t understand why you would do this.Will be on edge all day waiting for calls/email etc. Parents calling theirs this morning, I rattled off an email last night to ours saying if we can exchange and complete today it would be preferred.They knew mum and dad would need to sign and have witnessed an insolvency document in April, the solicitor didn’t tell my parents this till 2 weeks ago. They were also emailing the wrong person to our side and were uncontactable for weeks.They have been incompetent at every turn.This has been going on since the end of January. So quite a long time considering it’s a purchase from my parents. Our enquiries were sent end of March beginning of April, our searches came back in may. Satisfactory relies to enquiries were not sent back till last week, so they’ve taken 3 months to send over title deeds and organise the signing of insolvency. No other enquiries were sent as we live in the property and my parents as our landlords regularly had boiler and electrics serviced.
Plus it was my parents solicitors who suggested exchange for last Friday then again for yesterday and completion tomorrow. We were just happy to let it roll on for however long as we don’t need to move or make SLDT.Fingers crossed today contact is made between both sides and it’s all sorted0 -
laura_lau said:So my solicitor called. She said the lender is not satisfied with a document I had my partner sign, which they asked when they made the mortgage offer. They want him to seek independent legal advice before signing it, which they could have said 1 month ago when we sent them the signed form! Not wait until completion to say no sorry we want your partner to hire another solicitor the day before the stamp duty deadline. I've already called 4 and they are all above capacity, obviously, and one of them quoted me £2000 just to speak with my partner and witness him signing the document. This is insane. I'm furious. I must admit that I've been crying like a fountain. This is too much.
my conveyancer dropped my case last Monday and same day managed to get a Solicior and we are completing today.1 -
laura_lau said:So my solicitor called. She said the lender is not satisfied with a document I had my partner sign, which they asked when they made the mortgage offer. They want him to seek independent legal advice before signing it, which they could have said 1 month ago when we sent them the signed form! Not wait until completion to say no sorry we want your partner to hire another solicitor the day before the stamp duty deadline. I've already called 4 and they are all above capacity, obviously, and one of them quoted me £2000 just to speak with my partner and witness him signing the document. This is insane. I'm furious. I must admit that I've been crying like a fountain. This is too much.Really feel for you1
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laura_lau said:So my solicitor called. She said the lender is not satisfied with a document I had my partner sign, which they asked when they made the mortgage offer. They want him to seek independent legal advice before signing it, which they could have said 1 month ago when we sent them the signed form! Not wait until completion to say no sorry we want your partner to hire another solicitor the day before the stamp duty deadline. I've already called 4 and they are all above capacity, obviously, and one of them quoted me £2000 just to speak with my partner and witness him signing the document. This is insane. I'm furious. I must admit that I've been crying like a fountain. This is too much.0
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laura_lau said:So my solicitor called. She said the lender is not satisfied with a document I had my partner sign, which they asked when they made the mortgage offer. They want him to seek independent legal advice before signing it, which they could have said 1 month ago when we sent them the signed form! Not wait until completion to say no sorry we want your partner to hire another solicitor the day before the stamp duty deadline. I've already called 4 and they are all above capacity, obviously, and one of them quoted me £2000 just to speak with my partner and witness him signing the document. This is insane. I'm furious. I must admit that I've been crying like a fountain. This is too much.0
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Another day of waiting for our buyers solicitor to confirm at what stage they’re at. All others are pretty much ready to go.I’m so anxious 😥0
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Forgot to mention as I was so excited we had exchanged yesterday evening. Upon exchange the buyer asked his solicitor to forward the message to us "sorry the oil tank is empty" Have had to place an order which cant arrive until at least tomorrow (plus as the pipe has to come over the hedge we need to cut the hedge first in order for him to deliver it. Also no baths or showers as no hot water. Slimy B..........d.0
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Caz_Mnaz said:laura_lau said:So my solicitor called. She said the lender is not satisfied with a document I had my partner sign, which they asked when they made the mortgage offer. They want him to seek independent legal advice before signing it, which they could have said 1 month ago when we sent them the signed form! Not wait until completion to say no sorry we want your partner to hire another solicitor the day before the stamp duty deadline. I've already called 4 and they are all above capacity, obviously, and one of them quoted me £2000 just to speak with my partner and witness him signing the document. This is insane. I'm furious. I must admit that I've been crying like a fountain. This is too much.Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
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m4x1ne said:laura_lau said:So my solicitor called. She said the lender is not satisfied with a document I had my partner sign, which they asked when they made the mortgage offer. They want him to seek independent legal advice before signing it, which they could have said 1 month ago when we sent them the signed form! Not wait until completion to say no sorry we want your partner to hire another solicitor the day before the stamp duty deadline. I've already called 4 and they are all above capacity, obviously, and one of them quoted me £2000 just to speak with my partner and witness him signing the document. This is insane. I'm furious. I must admit that I've been crying like a fountain. This is too much.Debt free journey started 30/08/2023:
CC1 - 5,151.92 now 5,335.15
CC3 - 4,166.15 now 5,345.28
CC4 - 4,625.87 (balance transfer from CC2) now 5,717.24
Current outstanding: 16,397.67
Debt free by Jul 2027.
Challenges:
NSD Apr 2025 - 7/20
NST Apr 2025 -
#31 1p savings 2025 £32.40/£667.95
2025 Fashion on the ration - Coupons remaining 43.5/660
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