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  • If people don't like it, they'll have to look at why people don't want to contribute to all the drinks. Stand your ground and ask your friend to do so too.

    Hope your day went well.
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
  • Thanks MF we have both decided no drinks as the wine list shows the cheapest bottle is £18.45!! We are hoping to get water then move on to another local bar for a drink after the meal. 

    She has invited me round tomorrow afternoon for a chat & a baileys so I’m looking forward to that. 😊

    Work is now finished for the week 🤗
    0% credit card £1360 & 0% Car Loan £7500 ~ paid in full JAN 2020 = NOW DEBT FREE 🤗
    House sale OCT 2022 = NOW MORTGAGE FREE 🤗
    House purchase completed FEB 2023 🥳🍾 Left work. 🤗

    Retired at 55 & now living off the equity £10k a year (until pensions start at 60 & 67).

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  • Not sure if this will help you with tyres. Since I’ve been ill, it’s been really difficult to do mine. Boyfriend will do it for me, but as he lives 30 miles away, it’s not always convenient. So I asked ATS and they’ve been fine with me. I explained how my back was to them as well. I always call first rather than pitch up in case they’re busy and I did offer to pay, but they would have none of it. I suppose they think if they discovered a slow puncture or something I’d find it difficult to refuse for them to deal with it, but worth it for the help it’s been. 

  • How much 😲 
    Enjoy the Bailey's, it's a fantastic winter drink.

    Great tip MW, take them biscuits next month, if you can spare it.
    Mortgage started 2020, aiming to clear 31/12/2029.
  • savingwannabe
    savingwannabe Posts: 16,619 Forumite
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    Yum to Baileys. I always hated having to pay for other's drinks, I really cant afford it now. 
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • Skint_yet_Again
    Skint_yet_Again Posts: 8,446 Forumite
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    edited 20 November 2021 at 7:49AM
    Thanks MW that’s a great idea. I will try & pluck up the courage!

    MF & SW you are so right about paying for drinks. If they are buying in rounds I always opt out and say I will buy my own as I’m not drinking as much. 

     I woke up during a doze on the sofa having a coughing fit last night, not sure why, it felt like something had irritated the back of my throat. It stopped after a warm drink but is now very sore. I have had a drink and paracetamol at 3.30am and I am awake again and just having a cup of tea, hoping to doze off again. 
    Plans for the weekend 

    Clean oven 
    Read meters
    Descale kettle 
    Phone car ins - report low mileage 
    Clean shower screen & bath panel 
    Wood stain bath panel 
    0% credit card £1360 & 0% Car Loan £7500 ~ paid in full JAN 2020 = NOW DEBT FREE 🤗
    House sale OCT 2022 = NOW MORTGAGE FREE 🤗
    House purchase completed FEB 2023 🥳🍾 Left work. 🤗

    Retired at 55 & now living off the equity £10k a year (until pensions start at 60 & 67).

    Previous Savings diary https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5597938/get-a-grip/p1

    Living off savings diary
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6429003/escape-to-the-country-living-off-savings/p1
  • Grey sky but mild here today. No wind outside so no point in hanging any washing out. Heating is off as it’s not cold.
    I’m feeling blergh, not a “sore throat” but sore larynx plus remaining half thyroid is swollen & sore from coughing yesterday. Have just had another couple of paracetamol & will have a shower and hair wash this morning and hopefully the steam from the shower will help. 

    Didn’t get back to sleep so I’ve been up for ages and had breakfast. I’ve descaled the kettle and submitted meter readings. Slow cooker is on with more veg soup. Hopefully a baileys later will help me feel better 😋🍹
    0% credit card £1360 & 0% Car Loan £7500 ~ paid in full JAN 2020 = NOW DEBT FREE 🤗
    House sale OCT 2022 = NOW MORTGAGE FREE 🤗
    House purchase completed FEB 2023 🥳🍾 Left work. 🤗

    Retired at 55 & now living off the equity £10k a year (until pensions start at 60 & 67).

    Previous Savings diary https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5597938/get-a-grip/p1

    Living off savings diary
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6429003/escape-to-the-country-living-off-savings/p1
  • I hope so, i have just randomly started sneezing twice after going for a walk. I hope you feel better after rest and paracetomol. Steaming is good. I woke up at 4am this morning and couldnt sleep. Andy was the same. Something in the air i think. 

    Bailey's sounds lovely. Enjoy today.
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
  • Skint_yet_Again
    Skint_yet_Again Posts: 8,446 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Hung up my suit! Mortgage-free Glee!
    edited 20 November 2021 at 11:27AM
    Thanks SW Hope you and Andy are ok and not starting with a lurgy. Have a lovely day. 

    Just adding to my list of things to do this weekend as I need to dig out my Christmas cards I bought in the sales last year & check I have enough 
    0% credit card £1360 & 0% Car Loan £7500 ~ paid in full JAN 2020 = NOW DEBT FREE 🤗
    House sale OCT 2022 = NOW MORTGAGE FREE 🤗
    House purchase completed FEB 2023 🥳🍾 Left work. 🤗

    Retired at 55 & now living off the equity £10k a year (until pensions start at 60 & 67).

    Previous Savings diary https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5597938/get-a-grip/p1

    Living off savings diary
    https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/6429003/escape-to-the-country-living-off-savings/p1
  • Lots of people at my workplace and Andy's have Covid. I sanitise all the time but in the food area we have to take our masks off to eat!!! I dont think i have it it is just a sneeze and i feel fine. I hope. lol
    Aiming for a minimal spend 2022
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