Do You Trust Your Other Half?

annandale

The link from the daily mail

Pmsl. You know if it's in the daily mail it must be true
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Pollycat

Brightonsbest wrote: »

Dear Pollycat

Me and my OH are both happy.
We share a mutual interest ie visit sauna/naturist spa once every 3/4 weeks. After the visit, we have fun and it takes my mind away what happened with my ex.


TBH, I don't want to check, but I do not want to be deceived either.

She might be happy in ignorance of the fact you're sneakliy checking her phone but if she has any self-respect at all and ever finds out, she'll dump you so fast that it'll make your head spin.

I agree with another poster.
I think you need counselling to enable you to move forward from the deceit you suffered in an earlier relationship.

Brightonsbest wrote: »

Mu OH is good looking and I note men watching her and she does as well at times and I tell her about it and she is aware I don't like that kind of thing so steers clear of men especially when they have had a drink.

You come across as incredibly controlling.
I'm beginning to wonder at your ethnicity.

Brightonsbest wrote: »

I wish we lived in a perfect world but we don't

There's lots of things that I wish were better in this world.
Eradicating infidelity comes pretty low on my list.

Brightonsbest wrote: »

Look at that politican where his OH cheated

Which one? :rotfl:

Brightonsbest_2

annandale wrote: »

The link from the daily mail

Pmsl. You know if it's in the daily mail it must be true
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Dear Annadale

please have the deceny to agree that you misquoted me as I have clearly back up my statement that nearly 90% of the women cheats never get found out, hence my caution ie never to have unprotected sex with your OH, male or female.

I'm a magnamious person and open and honest, lets hope you have the decny to accept your mistake.

Brightonsbest_2

Attention All

If you are too fearful to post here when you check your other halfs mobile/etc, PM me and I will post here but not your name.

Clearly many do check but only had a couple of osters admit to this.

annandale

My name isn't Ann

And quoting from the daily mail doesn't make your ridiculous point of view correct.

annandale

Attention seeking cobblers

warehouse

My wife and all 3 kids know how to access my phone. Many times whilst driving all of them have read out or sent messages for me, answered the phone for me, gone through my emails to get directions etc etc. I couldn't get away with cheating if I wanted to. I have no problem with them all going into my phone, why would I?

Likewise, I can access my wifes phone if I so desired, but I never do, not ever. Why would anyone want to?

Brightonsbest_2

warehouse wrote: »

uld I?

Likewise, I can access my wifes phone if I so desired, but I never do, not ever. Why would anyone want to?

Thanks for sharing.

your question, please reread my OP/etc. However, your choice.

Lily-Rose_3

Brighton Best, you can't just refuse to believe that people never check their partner's emails and texts just because you do; many just do not. I certainly don't!

If I ever suspected him of cheating, I may do, I don't know. One could never say until it happens to them.

Basically, what I'm saying is that you can't refuse to believe someone just because they have different experiences and views to you.

And I agree with the person that said it's not necessarily true if it's in the daily mail. You can't seriously believe what you read in THAT rag!

Edited to say.

Just gone through many of your posts and I can see that you have had some bad experiences in your relationships, and you have a LOT of issues. That is a shame, but you can't insist that everyone must agree with you, and anyone who doesn't is wrong.

I agree with the people who say you should seek counselling. There are a LOT of alarm bells ringing in your posts.

Pollycat

Brightonsbest wrote: »

Attention All

If you are too fearful to post here when you check your other halfs mobile/etc, PM me and I will post here but not your name.

Clearly many do check but only had a couple of osters admit to this.

And exactly how have you reached this conclusion?