Do You Trust Your Other Half?

Brightonsbest_2

annandale wrote: »

Who misquoted you? Women are much harder to catch at cheating as they are cunning? For this reason I always recommend safe sex with your other half as you don't know where they have been.

Must have been my eyes deceiving me eh?

Talk about a lot of attention seeking mysoginistic rubbish

Hi

You did misquote me and that remains a fact

Just google up " women cheats" and a story in the Mail stated "89% of women gt away with cheating."

Do you want me to post the link?

I will in a few moments

Here

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2161706/Almost-women-cheat-caught-partners---fifth-men-DO-out.html

Pollycat

Brightonsbest wrote: »

please do not "pitty.." me, but your choice!

Actually, on reflection it's not you that I pitty (sic).

It's your partner who - because someone in your past cheated on you - is subjected to this

Brightonsbest wrote: »

New OH, I check nw about once every few months, initially it was more frequent.

Brightonsbest wrote: »

In my view, better to check than be deceived as deception really hurts especially if you find out years down the road.

Brightonsbest wrote: »

Yes, we too share our codes/etc in saving accounts, but I do have a sneaky look especially if she gets more than a couple of texts a day, as we are not mobile phone made.

ATB

Brightonsbest wrote: »

I have a look, sneaky one, but I don't stop here from going to work, going out shops/etc or calling/speaking to other people. All I do is to ensure to the best of my ability that I'm not being cheated/deceived again

You "don't stop her from going to work"?

Really? What a catch!

Mojisola wrote: »

Living with someone who felt the need to regularly check that I was being faithful would be enough to drive me away from the relationship.

This ^^^^

And if she ever finds out about your 'sneaky looks' it will serve you right for projecting another woman's transgressions against you (which I am not in any way defending) onto your new - and as yet innocent - partner.

jackieblack

Brightonsbest wrote: »

Just google up " women cheats" and a story in the Mail stated "89% of women gt away with cheating."

Do you want me to post the link?

I will in a few moments

Here

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2161706/Almost-women-cheat-caught-partners---fifth-men-DO-out.html

haha :rotfl:
well if it's in the Daily Mail it must be true!

:wall: :wall: :wall:

tommix

My dear BrightonBest, with respect I would argue that 99% of the 90% who cheat on their beloveds do not in fact love their beloveds and are seeking solace in the arms of extra-cirricular beloveds..

It is a tragic situation and a sad reflection of the spiritually moribund times in which we live. I myself have never cheated upon my beloved, save for purchasing a copy of Escort magazine in 1983.:beer:

Brightonsbest_2

Dear Pollycat

Me and my OH are both happy.
We share a mutual interest ie visit sauna/naturist spa once every 3/4 weeks. After the visit, we have fun and it takes my mind away what happened with my ex.


TBH, I don't want to check, but I do not want to be deceived either.

Mu OH is good looking and I note men watching her and she does as well at times and I tell her about it and she is aware I don't like that kind of thing so steers clear of men especially when they have had a drink.

I wish we lived in a perfect world but we don't

IMO, as many women as men, given half the chance would cheat. Look at that politican where his OH cheated

Brightonsbest_2

tommix wrote: »

My dear BrightonBest, with respect I would argue that 99% of the 90% who cheat on their beloveds do not in fact love their beloveds and are seeking solace in the arms of extra-cirricular beloveds..

It is a tragic situation and a sad reflection of the spiritually moribund times in which we live. I myself have never cheated upon my beloved, save for purchasing a copy of Escort magazine in 1983.:beer:

Thanks for sharing

Marvel1

My ex cheated on me, and it started like you said with the mobile phone, we often lied on the sofa watching TV, and then one day it was suddendly her looking at phone away from me, didn't think nothing of it at first and then more happens slightly different.

Soon after I ended it.

annandale

No one misquoted you. I posted some of your earlier comments.

Your posts get more ridiculous every time you type.

Brightonsbest_2

cjdavies wrote: »

My ex cheated on me, and it started like you said with the mobile phone, we often lied on the sofa watching TV, and then one day it was suddendly her looking at phone away from me, didn't think nothing of it at first and then more happens slightly different.

Soon after I ended it.

Thanks for sharing.

Best to end it all as once a cheat always a cheat. especially if found out in a realtively new-ish realtionship.

Since the advent of the popula mobile phoneinternet, cheating has shot up.

Be loving and caring but no one wants to be a complete fool of.

If you have been married for a long time and you catch out your wife/hubby, depends on the extent of the deception/etc, may be a chance to fix things. As I said earlier, many regret finding out, their choice.

Only check if you have doubts and be prepared for whet you may find

Marriage/realtiships is hard work

Brightonsbest_2

annandale wrote: »

No one misquoted you. I posted some of your earlier comments.

Your posts get more ridiculous every time you type.

you did and you chose to ignore the link/evidence.

Anyway, I not here to argue and I stand by what I said and the link is there to back up the figures.