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Contact transport arrangements

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  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    Cancelling contact at the last minute is separate to the transport issue.

    Share the transport.

    If the consistency becomes an issue, go back to mediation?
  • doing_it_for_my_babies
    doing_it_for_my_babies Posts: 42 Forumite
    Yes He did.
  • doing_it_for_my_babies
    doing_it_for_my_babies Posts: 42 Forumite
    ViolaLass wrote: »
    Cancelling contact at the last minute is separate to the transport issue.

    Share the transport.

    If the consistency becomes an issue, go back to mediation?

    Mediation doesn't matter to him. Spent time in mediation agreed a contact plan.. finalised mediation week later he changes it. A contact order would make no difference either.
  • ViolaLass
    ViolaLass Posts: 5,764 Forumite
    doing_it_for_my_babies wrote: »
    Mediation doesn't matter to him. Spent time in mediation agreed a contact plan.. finalised mediation week later he changes it. A contact order would make no difference either.

    I thought this was amicable? And he's a lovely bloke?

    Mixed messages.
  • baby_lemonade
    baby_lemonade Posts: 843 Forumite
    ViolaLass wrote: »
    I thought this was amicable? And he's a lovely bloke?

    Mixed messages.

    Not sure if it's a fantasist or a troll, but it's making amusing reading :rotfl:
  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    Why were you in court??
  • hec2308
    hec2308 Posts: 71 Forumite
    Guest101 wrote: »
    Why were you in court??

    I was wondering the same thing. If agreements were put in place in mediation there would have been no need to go to court about anything surely? If there is no contact order in place then what exactly was done in court?
  • doing_it_for_my_babies
    doing_it_for_my_babies Posts: 42 Forumite
    Divorce finalisation. House and assets. By then we had agreed an alternative contact plan as it is now. Although it was his suggestion. I thought about it andoes agreed it made sense as he wouldnt agree to any of the other proposals I had put to him. So there was no need for a contact order hearing as well.
  • doing_it_for_my_babies
    doing_it_for_my_babies Posts: 42 Forumite
    ViolaLass wrote: »
    I thought this was amicable? And he's a lovely bloke?

    Mixed messages.

    Sorry the sarcasm isn't readable in writing if that makes sense.
  • Guest101
    Guest101 Posts: 15,764 Forumite
    doing_it_for_my_babies wrote: »
    Divorce finalisation. House and assets. By then we had agreed an alternative contact plan as it is now. Although it was his suggestion. I thought about it andoes agreed it made sense as he wouldnt agree to any of the other proposals I had put to him. So there was no need for a contact order hearing as well.



    And out of curiosity how was all this split?


    Perhaps he feels aggrieved?
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