The woman at the office.

Guest101

Alice_Walker wrote: »

He's not lying to protect you, he's lying to protect himself. More evidence of him deflecting his wrongdoing on other people

At the start of this thread I was in the harmless flirting camp, but now it seems this is not an isolated incident. Something really needs to change, and it's not you.

Perhaps he lies to get away from constant accusations.


If she wont believe the truth, it may be easier to lie

SarahandherCat

tea_lover wrote: »

I know you said earlier that you couldn't afford counselling but from this post is seems that you can't afford not to. Some sessions with a counsellor (separately and together) would be a very worthwhile investment, however things pan out in the future.

I will look into it again and see if there is anything cheaper, but at £40 a session whilst we might be able to afford one or two I'd assume it wouldn't be much help unless I could go on a regular basis for a while.

Never been in counselling or talked to anyone that has so wouldn't know what to expect.

AylesburyDuck

SarahandherCat wrote: »

I will look into it again and see if there is anything cheaper, but at £40 a session whilst we might be able to afford one or two I'd assume it wouldn't be much help unless I could go on a regular basis for a while.

Never been in counselling or talked to anyone that has so wouldn't know what to expect.

Look at it this way, consider the cost of counceling wether 40 quid a session or not, against the financial and emotional implications of divorce.
Which is the most expensive?

AylesburyDuck

Guest101 wrote: »

I suspect this would be a lucky escape for the husband in the long term.


Being unable to deal with what is not a serious issue in the grand scheme shows a much deeper issue (not necessarily to do with the husband)


To be honest if OP quizzes him so often and he gets attention from someone else, I'm hardly surprised he left the door open. His own wife is already closing that door!

God no, i in absolutely no way what so ever think that. :eek:

Guest101

AylesburyDuck wrote: »

God no, i in absolutely no way what so ever think that. :eek:

If a person, male or female, came on here saying that whenever they came home from work they were quizzed by the partner, many people would call that abuse.

AylesburyDuck

Guest101 wrote: »

If a person, male or female, came on here saying that whenever they came home from work they were quizzed by the partner, many people would call that abuse.

And........... why are you even quoting me, go away!:rotfl:

Guest101

AylesburyDuck wrote: »

And........... why are you even quoting me, go away!:rotfl:

Oh I see you're one of those posters.


Well wont be around long to even bother remembering the username

AylesburyDuck

Guest101 wrote: »

Oh I see you're one of those posters.


Well wont be around long to even bother remembering the username

Jog on, i've lurked longer than you've been a member for.
Just dont quote me in your inane waffle for nothing is all! It hold no value to the thread.:(
Edit.
Not to mention its down right creepy to boot.

Guest101

AylesburyDuck wrote: »

Jog on, i've lurked longer than you've been a member for.
Just dont quote me in your inane waffle for nothing is all! It hold no value to the thread.:(

No promises

System

Oh I see you're one of those posters.


Well wont be around long to even bother remembering the username

Jog on, i've lurked longer than you've been a member for.
Just dont quote me in your inane waffle for nothing is all! It hold no value to the thread.:(
Edit.
Not to mention its down right creepy to boot.

I'll hold the coats