Screwed up big time

lilibet1

Mupette wrote: »

So you guys were happy to see 2 grown behave in a way that upset the children, a toxic environment?

Let me spin this like you two have done,

You both agree with child cruelty and abuse, Yes shame on you.

I think it's quite clear that nobody is doing that you Mupette. However, I'm unsure what you meant as your post makes no sense.

suki1964

just_trying wrote: »

Spin what, grow up.

Yes real world here, she got into debt. He antagonised the situation by ignoring her and making the situation worse.

Child cruelty and abuse, she abused her kids how and was cruel when, looking at cctv ?.She was with him for 10 years, she's the one caring for them now.

Oh, yeah plus we were saying people's nasty comments weren't helping someone who yes was feeling vulnerable. I have kids so what are you insinuating ?.

Go back and read the thread

She first said that she was fed up with him so said she wanted a divorce

She then changed her mind

Then he find out about the debt and goes into one

In retaliation she tells him in fron of the children she will be leaving him and the only contact they will have will be in a contact centre

Two adults that are abusing each other by email

At the same time she is slagging him as a parent who does nothing, she posts that he's "acting normal and putting up swings"

Now unless the "adults" are the ones who want swings I'd suggest he done that for the children he didn't do a thing for


Ladies, read the " evidence". Decide if any of it makes any bloody sense before you turn on each other

Even if it was all true and you believe every word written, would you ladies want your children brought up living in that envoiremet ?

Seriously ?

Pollycat

lilibet1 wrote: »

I think it's quite clear that nobody is doing that you Mupette. However, I'm unsure what you meant as your post makes no sense.

Makes sense to me.

lilibet1

Pollycat wrote: »

Makes sense to me.

You're as bad as that Mupette then. Read it again.

suki1964

lilibet1 wrote: »

You're as bad as that Mupette then. Read it again.

Made sense to me as well

What didn't you understand?

Mupette

Please forgive the odd word misspelled or missed I have MS.

lilibet1 I think it's quite clear that nobody is doing that you Mupette. However, I'm unsure what you meant as your post makes no sense.

I'm not reading yours right either

Pollycat

lilibet1 wrote: »

You're as bad as that Mupette then. Read it again.

In view of the content of your post #384, I did read the post. In fact I read it several times.
It still makes sense to me.
I suggest you read it again.

just_trying

suki1964 wrote: »

Go back and read the thread

She first said that she was fed up with him so said she wanted a divorce

She then changed her mind

Then he find out about the debt and goes into one

In retaliation she tells him in fron of the children she will be leaving him and the only contact they will have will be in a contact centre

Two adults that are abusing each other by email

At the same time she is slagging him as a parent who does nothing, she posts that he's "acting normal and putting up swings"

Now unless the "adults" are the ones who want swings I'd suggest he done that for the children he didn't do a thing for


Ladies, read the " evidence". Decide if any of it makes any bloody sense before you turn on each other

Even if it was all true and you believe every word written, would you ladies want your children brought up living in that envoiremet ?

Seriously ?

Suki, no one said they wanted there children brought up in this situation, what I said was some comments were wrong, I didn't agree with them. I've read most of the thread and yes sorry if you don't agree she came across as vulnerable.

From what I've read she said child centre contact due to previous incidents and putting the swings up for the children yes and maybe scoring points as look back he was awkward when she said no he was saying yes, what's that about.

She's left according to her posts and no I don't appreciate muppets comments, where I'm from the meaning of her user name fits perfect.

just_trying

Mupette wrote: »

Please forgive the odd word misspelled or missed I have MS.

lilibet1 I think it's quite clear that nobody is doing that you Mupette. However, I'm unsure what you meant as your post makes no sense.

I'm not reading yours right either

Explain yourself you said we agree with child cruelty and abuse you managed to make that comment clear.

Mupette

just_trying wrote: »

She's left according to her posts and no I don't appreciate muppets comments, where I'm from the meaning of her user name fits perfect.

You really don't need to lower yourself to this, that is just childish.

You may of seen the OP as vulnerable, a lot of us saw her slightly differently.

If we had not told her to leave for the sake of her children, who knows what house smashing, verbal abuse the children would of seen and heard, and where i come from that is not acceptable.

It's nothing more than child abuse - something i seen and heard a lot as a child, not to mention a mother who's view on discipline was to beat the living daylights out of me just because.

I would never put my son through that so as soon as my ex was doing it that was it, he was out and we were divorced.

Its taken me years to get over what my parents and ex did to me, do you think that was acceptable?

parents don't realise what their actions can do to children.

We were concerned about the children. And I stand by everything i said.