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Can men and women be friends?

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  • piglet74
    piglet74 Posts: 2,157 Forumite
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    catmiaow wrote: »
    Yeah but it was a really good friendship. I didn't see the feelings, but that was a long time ago.

    But it wasn't just a friendship, this man was interested in you!

    How did it work out with your husband and the women at work he was attracted to?
  • catmiaow
    catmiaow Posts: 5,954 Forumite
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    piglet74 wrote: »
    But it wasn't just a friendship, this man was interested in you!

    How did it work out with your husband and the women at work he was attracted to?

    Yeah years and years ago, this present guy isn't interested or I would know.

    As for my hubby, it ended badly she was a s*g trying to get him in bed and lucky for him he didn't go for it.
    No you're not a vegetarian if you eat any animal or fish, so do not insult genuine veggies by calling yourself one! :mad:

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  • Bogof_Babe
    Bogof_Babe Posts: 10,803 Forumite
    Watching films, looking at castles, going to pubs.

    It's a pity you can't compromise with your husband so that you can share eachother's interests. That's how most marriages work.
    :D I haven't bogged off yet, and I ain't no babe :D

  • catmiaow
    catmiaow Posts: 5,954 Forumite
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    Bogof_Babe wrote: »
    It's a pity you can't compromise with your husband so that you can share eachother's interests. That's how most marriages work.

    He does sometimes, but it is better to go with someone who is enjoying it. i love the cinema, my husband doesn't.
    No you're not a vegetarian if you eat any animal or fish, so do not insult genuine veggies by calling yourself one! :mad:

    Thanks to everyone who posts competitions. You are the stars of the board :T:j:T
  • piglet74
    piglet74 Posts: 2,157 Forumite
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    Are you playing tit for tat with your husband?

    I honestly think your were expecting people to say, yes of course they can be friends, then you would see this as a green light for meeting up with this guy,

    Then in a few weeks you will be posting under a new user name saying, I cheated on my husband with a guy at work,

    In answer to your op, yes they can if NEITHER has an attraction to the other,
  • Bogof_Babe
    Bogof_Babe Posts: 10,803 Forumite
    catmiaow wrote: »
    He does sometimes, but it is better to go with someone who is enjoying it. i love the cinema, my husband doesn't.

    Just curious, but do you like the same sort of films as this guy at work then?

    I don't see any harm in going to the flicks together, provided your husband is okay about it, but not the back row and no hand holding! ;)
    :D I haven't bogged off yet, and I ain't no babe :D

  • catmiaow
    catmiaow Posts: 5,954 Forumite
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    piglet74 wrote: »
    Are you playing tit for tat with your husband?

    I honestly think your were expecting people to say, yes of course they can be friends, then you would see this as a green light for meeting up with this guy,

    Then in a few weeks you will be posting under a new user name saying, I cheated on my husband with a guy at work,

    In answer to your op, yes they can if NEITHER has an attraction to the other,

    No not at all, I am totally against cheating and like I said that guy from work isn't interested. I really just want friendship.
    No you're not a vegetarian if you eat any animal or fish, so do not insult genuine veggies by calling yourself one! :mad:

    Thanks to everyone who posts competitions. You are the stars of the board :T:j:T
  • catmiaow
    catmiaow Posts: 5,954 Forumite
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    Bogof_Babe wrote: »
    Just curious, but do you like the same sort of films as this guy at work then?

    I don't see any harm in going to the flicks together, provided your husband is okay about it, but not the back row and no hand holding! ;)

    Yeah we do, haven't suggested one to one time. Seems a bit soon!
    No you're not a vegetarian if you eat any animal or fish, so do not insult genuine veggies by calling yourself one! :mad:

    Thanks to everyone who posts competitions. You are the stars of the board :T:j:T
  • piglet74
    piglet74 Posts: 2,157 Forumite
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    Are you honestly going to say to your husband, "sweetie, there's a guy at work who I find really attractive, do you mind if I go to the cinema with him on Saturday night"...
  • catmiaow
    catmiaow Posts: 5,954 Forumite
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    piglet74 wrote: »
    Are you honestly going to say to your husband, "sweetie, there's a guy at work who I find really attractive, do you mind if I go to the cinema with him on Saturday night"...

    No it would be going to cinema with a guy from work
    No you're not a vegetarian if you eat any animal or fish, so do not insult genuine veggies by calling yourself one! :mad:

    Thanks to everyone who posts competitions. You are the stars of the board :T:j:T
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