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  • summerlady_2
    summerlady_2 Posts: 218 Forumite
    Had to call the council who can't come out until next Tuesday so he has until then to move them or they will.

    As he's employed, you could let the council have the employers contact details so that they can recover any costs without having to contact you for his address.
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  • Toomuchdebt
    Toomuchdebt Posts: 2,133 Forumite
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    He's employed through an agency so would that work?
    He's promised to move one car tomorrow as soon as he takes it for the MOT and gets tax and insurance. The other one is to be sold as soon as the first one is on the road so I shall soon have my driveway back :)
    He's being nice as pie now, emailing politely to ask how the kids are etc. I'm sure he thinks if he's nice for a bit I'll relent and start helping him again. Um no. I have to stay in touch with him because of the kids but that's it. I'm just ignoring all the other stuff in the emails and just replying about the kids. He is at least sober which is good because if he drinks he's not seeing the kids.
    I'm discovering I'm quite happy pootling along by myself. :)
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  • Techvirgin
    Techvirgin Posts: 9 Forumite
    Hi,I'm new to this forum business but for what its worth get a court order and get rid!!! Hi everybody!!
  • Tiddlywinks
    Tiddlywinks Posts: 5,777 Forumite
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    Techvirgin wrote: »
    Hi,I'm new to this forum business but for what its worth get a court order and get rid!!! Hi everybody!!

    Have you read everything on the thread.

    How can the OP 'get rid' of the father of her children?
    :hello:
  • Toomuchdebt
    Toomuchdebt Posts: 2,133 Forumite
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    Yes not as simple as all that Techvirgin. Have to keep things amicable for the sake of the kids, and he's not an evil dad or anything-just useless when he drinks. If this whole situation has an impact on his drinking then he can carry on seeing the kids. If not then yes it'll go to court at some point so I can organise supervised access but no I can't just "get rid".
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  • Techvirgin
    Techvirgin Posts: 9 Forumite
    Obviously the father isn't a very good 1 if he is sleeping in a car and drinks
  • robin_banks
    robin_banks Posts: 15,778 Forumite
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    Techvirgin wrote: »
    Obviously the father isn't a very good 1 if he is sleeping in a car and drinks



    This is true.
    "An arrogant and self-righteous Guardian reading tvv@t".

    !!!!!! is all that about?
  • How are you doing TMD? Hope things are getting better.
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  • mum2one
    mum2one Posts: 16,279 Forumite
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    hope your going on ok xxx
    xx rip dad... we had our ups and downs but we’re always be family xx
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