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  • Hi Lepardlady
    I can complete understand where you are coming from. We're on our 3rd month of TTC and as AF is due next week I spend most of my time wondering whether or not i'm pregnant! I have got better than my first month though when I was always symptom spotting and driving my poor OH mad.

    I'm trying hard to not stress about becoming pregnant, and if AF does appear next week at least i'll be able to drink champagne on my 30th :D.

    Babydust to you all.
  • I wrote the below just short of two weeks ago...
    Icklebeans wrote: »
    Rightio gals, I am now on the tww!

    This is the second month of conceiving and as far as I can tell we have done everything correctly. We have baby dancing 3 nights in a row and once on Thurs to make love without baby dancing. I have felt ovulation pains last night. The previous two mornings I have had the "right muscus" along with last nights population paste (ewgh!), temperature hasn't gone down yet so may baby dancing tonight too (isn't he a lucky fella?!) and I am folic acid and he is on the zinc!

    So, all good signs, now got to go through the two week wait...

    Tonight we are going to stay with the in-laws. Father-in law likes good wine as well as me. But, what if I was pregant - I wouldn't be able to have any and if I wasn't, I could so I decided to test.

    I am on 24 out of a variable 25-29 day cycle. I tested with a Clear Blue strip. A very faint line appeared but not dark enough to get excited. At work I popped along to our local chemist and got a Clear Blue Digital (half price promotion - I got it for £4.99!!!) and it has come up with a Big Fat Positive!!!

    I am in shock! Want to tell the world but obviously can't so will just tell you guys!

    It is such a relief for us. I think I am just under 2 weeks pregnant, so early days yet for us.

    We have been together just over 6 years. Bought our own house 3.5 years ago and been doing it up ourselves since and got married last year on our 5th anniversary. I wanted children around 30-ish - after todays events it looks like I might be about 7 months pregnant on my 30th in March!

    So gals - baby dust everywhere for the month of September!

    xxx
    :j
    Proud mother of twin boys - double the trouble and twice the pleasure! :T
  • angela6834
    angela6834 Posts: 1,036 Forumite
    Icklebeans wrote: »
    I wrote the below just short of two weeks ago...



    Tonight we are going to stay with the in-laws. Father-in law likes good wine as well as me. But, what if I was pregant - I wouldn't be able to have any and if I wasn't, I could so I decided to test.

    I am on 24 out of a variable 25-29 day cycle. I tested with a Clear Blue strip. A very faint line appeared but not dark enough to get excited. At work I popped along to our local chemist and got a Clear Blue Digital (half price promotion - I got it for £4.99!!!) and it has come up with a Big Fat Positive!!!

    I am in shock! Want to tell the world but obviously can't so will just tell you guys!

    It is such a relief for us. I think I am just under 2 weeks pregnant, so early days yet for us.

    We have been together just over 6 years. Bought our own house 3.5 years ago and been doing it up ourselves since and got married last year on our 5th anniversary. I wanted children around 30-ish - after todays events it looks like I might be about 7 months pregnant on my 30th in March!

    So gals - baby dust everywhere for the month of September!

    xxx
    :j

    Congratulations!!!

    I bet you're over the moon. Hope you have a happy and healthy 9 months x
    DS Anthony Steven 07.06.92
    DD Becky Emma 24.01.94
    DD Rose Grace Jean 12.05.09
  • GracieP
    GracieP Posts: 1,263 Forumite
    AF definitely on it's evil way.:( I have the dull, heavy, crampy feeling that always precedes it. So I have days of worsening cramps and migraines ahead of me. Yay!

    Am so p'd off. In my head I knew better, but deep down I was convinced it would happen right away. One of my grandmothers had 10 children, occasionally with less than a year between them. My other grandmother had 5 kids and conceived while breastfeeding. And I was conceived before my parents even had sex. So I kind of thought getting pregnant for me would happen as soon as I wanted it to.:o
  • GracieP
    GracieP Posts: 1,263 Forumite
    Oh, and congratulations Mrs Tine.:j

    I'm very, very jealous.;)

    And you too IckleBeans! :j
  • kathy72
    kathy72 Posts: 159 Forumite
    GracieP wrote: »

    AF definitely on it's evil way.:( I have the dull, heavy, crampy feeling that always precedes it. So I have days of worsening cramps and migraines ahead of me. Yay!

    I was convinced of this on 24.08.08 as I had got the horrible AF cramping pains...on 25.08.08 I got BFP!!!!!

    Kathy x
  • kathy72
    kathy72 Posts: 159 Forumite
    Congratulations Icklebeans...these BFP's are certainly contagious at the mo!!!! :T :T

    Kathy x
  • Sami_Bee
    Sami_Bee Posts: 14,555 Forumite
    shelly wrote: »
    Hi Sami and welcome to the thread.

    Do you know if your cycle is irregular because of the IUS or something else? Cheeky and personal question now**(disclaimer at the end)......are you overweight?

    How old/young are you? If you are in your 20's I'd advise relaxing and trying with no intervention yet. (when I say intervention I mean, temp charting, ov sticks etc)
    If you are over 30 then I'd say still try yourself for awhile but if nothing happens in a few months then maybe try temp charting or ov sticks, whatever you feel comfortable with.

    ** you will soon get used to personal and cheeky questions and plenty of TMI moments on this thread :rotfl:

    Hope I haven't offended you :o

    shelly x
    thanks for the welcome Shelly and Rosie
    Shelly; don't worry I don't offend easily :p
    my cycle has always been irregular - the only time not been was when I was on the pill but all those hormones made me ill _pale_ I'm not overweight and I'm 23 so I know nature is on my side but trouble with having IUS removed has given me time to become obsessed.
    I have a little boy already he's 19mths and was unplanned so I may be being paranoid that it won't be straightforward but we've not had much luck with mother nature recently.
    The very best is sometimes what nature gives us for free.
    3onitsway wrote: »
    I think Sami is right, as always!
  • angela6834
    angela6834 Posts: 1,036 Forumite
    Sami_Bee wrote: »
    thanks for the welcome Shelly and Rosie
    Shelly; don't worry I don't offend easily :p
    my cycle has always been irregular - the only time not been was when I was on the pill but all those hormones made me ill _pale_ I'm not overweight and I'm 23 so I know nature is on my side but trouble with having IUS removed has given me time to become obsessed.
    I have a little boy already he's 19mths and was unplanned so I may be being paranoid that it won't be straightforward but we've not had much luck with mother nature recently.

    Do you know if you were still ovulating when you had your coil in?

    I have had mine taken out but now i think about it, im not even sure i was ovulating when it was in!!!
    DS Anthony Steven 07.06.92
    DD Becky Emma 24.01.94
    DD Rose Grace Jean 12.05.09
  • MrsTinks
    MrsTinks Posts: 15,238 Forumite
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    Icklebeans wrote: »
    I wrote the below just short of two weeks ago...



    Tonight we are going to stay with the in-laws. Father-in law likes good wine as well as me. But, what if I was pregant - I wouldn't be able to have any and if I wasn't, I could so I decided to test.

    I am on 24 out of a variable 25-29 day cycle. I tested with a Clear Blue strip. A very faint line appeared but not dark enough to get excited. At work I popped along to our local chemist and got a Clear Blue Digital (half price promotion - I got it for £4.99!!!) and it has come up with a Big Fat Positive!!!

    I am in shock! Want to tell the world but obviously can't so will just tell you guys!

    It is such a relief for us. I think I am just under 2 weeks pregnant, so early days yet for us.

    We have been together just over 6 years. Bought our own house 3.5 years ago and been doing it up ourselves since and got married last year on our 5th anniversary. I wanted children around 30-ish - after todays events it looks like I might be about 7 months pregnant on my 30th in March!

    So gals - baby dust everywhere for the month of September!

    xxx
    :j




    OOOOOO congrats! Have you worked out your due date yet? We might be due on the same day!!!!!!! :j :j :j :j :j

    Mines 16/05/09 :D
    DFW Nerd #025
    DFW no more! Officially debt free 2017 - now joining the MFW's! :)

    My DFW Diary - blah- mildly funny stuff about my journey
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