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Trying To Concieve

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  • angelfairy
    angelfairy Posts: 3,594 Forumite
    Hugs! :grouphug:

    Bless ya becca. But chin up - there is always next month - and at least you know there's lots more BDing to come (sorry!)!

    Oh thanks SJ, that's really kind of you.

    AF hasn't shown yet, but now I am even more sure than ever she will.

    Agree with the BDing coming our way if I am right.... really hope I'm wrong and it's some strange symptom of pg.
  • honeypop
    honeypop Posts: 1,502 Forumite
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    Just out of interest to those of you (seen a lot lately) who when AF shows say never mind more BDing for us then, seeing as bd'ing is also good old-fashioned s e x, do you think you'd stop if you found you were pg?

    Just curious, as people seem to say it like they will keep having s e x now that AF arrived, as if they would have stopped if tested +ve. Seen people say for example 'oh well AF arrived, looking forward to more bd'ing then' which to me reads 'looking forward to more s e x then', which would happen in our house regardless of a -ve or +ve result.

    Obviously it wouldn't be classed as baby dancing after getting a +ve result I suppose, it that what you all mean? I've got my stupid head on I think.
  • Sarah_Joanne
    Sarah_Joanne Posts: 3,089 Forumite
    I see what you mean honeypop. I guess some (most?) people may be having more s e x while TTC as they are doing the regular 2-3 days thing, wheraeas normally the might only be at it once / twice a week.

    I for one won't be stopping the s e x after I get that BFP, but I think the chances are it might not be quite as often.
  • shelly
    shelly Posts: 6,394 Forumite
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    Jvic28 wrote: »
    Congrats Chickpea! I'd be gutted if I tested +ive then went to the Dr and he wouldn't test me. I'd want it official ASAP.

    X


    Both of my positive tests the Dr just took my word for it.
    With the first one I called my Dr's surgery all excited and they said I wouldn't see either Dr or midwife until 3 months gone unless I had any concerns.
    With the second it was exactly the same except when my spotting started (same as the first one) I went to A&E straightaway.
    If I ever fall pg a third time I would hope they would scan me early to make sure everything is ok.
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  • redmel1621
    redmel1621 Posts: 6,010 Forumite
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    Hi All, Well AF due tom, well sort of late tonight early tom!!!!!

    As I said before, i'm not feeling myself and today couldn't bring myself to drink tea, plus feeling naseaus all morning.....so did test at work BFP!!!!!!!!!
    Clearblue digi, it came up in unmistakable writing PREGNANT.

    I sat shaking for about 5 mins, then pulled myself together and tried to carry on the day without anyone knowing, I thinkI pulled it off???

    I am just so worried about miscarrying as my last two pgs miscarried at 7 & 10 wks.

    Good Luck All

    Mel x
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  • Mrs_Toast
    Mrs_Toast Posts: 450 Forumite
    Thanks very much for the advice everybody.

    I did go to the doctors and due to the fact I have Coeliacs Disease and I have low iron and B12 they had to take a blood test. The doctor advised like yourselves to test again next week which I will do. My DH is alot happier though. I'm alot more relaxed today especially because of all your advise. I'll let you know if I get a positive result next week.

    Thanks again, Mrs Toast x
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  • waddy80
    waddy80 Posts: 1,157 Forumite
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    redmel1621 wrote: »
    Hi All, Well AF due tom, well sort of late tonight early tom!!!!!

    As I said before, i'm not feeling myself and today couldn't bring myself to drink tea, plus feeling naseaus all morning.....so did test at work BFP!!!!!!!!!
    Clearblue digi, it came up in unmistakable writing PREGNANT.

    I sat shaking for about 5 mins, then pulled myself together and tried to carry on the day without anyone knowing, I thinkI pulled it off???

    I am just so worried about miscarrying as my last two pgs miscarried at 7 & 10 wks.

    Good Luck All

    Mel x

    Congratulations Mel! I'm sure everything will be fine. Look after yourself!
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  • sparklygirl1
    sparklygirl1 Posts: 436 Forumite
    Congratulations Mel, I wish you a healthy nine months
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  • Sarah_Joanne
    Sarah_Joanne Posts: 3,089 Forumite
    Congratulations Mel! This is a good month so far on here! Let's hope the baby fever spreads!

    Take care and I wish you all the very best!

    Sarah xx
  • xredwebx
    xredwebx Posts: 156 Forumite
    Congrats redmel!! Good luck for a healthy nine months.

    I've been feeling naseus all day, travel sick in every car and train I went on, so fingers crossed. Think i only ovulated yesterday so is it a bit soon? Cant wait to test later this month, want to do it now!

    Hope everyone else had a good day, baby dust to all!
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