Dating Dilemma - opinions please!

Guest101

Having a bf/gf whatever, makes absolutely no difference to the divorce proceedings.

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Maureen, my advice is to learn from the mistakes (and advice) of others because none of us not live long enough to make all the mistakes for ourselves unfortunately!

Is the guy genuine or not? Who knows, but at least keep your eyes open and be prepared for anything ...

Maureen43

LilElvis wrote: »

Does he have minor children?

Have you met any of his friends or family?

Yes and no

Maureen43

PeacefulWaters wrote: »

Until a financial agreement to divide assets is signed sealed and delivered I can understand him not wanting to rock the boat.

But why is it going to take a year?

They've been through mediation unsuccessfully. She wants all the proceeds from the family home plus all the pensions and savings. So he says...

Maureen43

Quizzical_Squirrel wrote: »

If it's not the wife from whom he's attempting to hide you then it's probably another woman.

What caused the divorce?

His wife had an affair. So he says...

Tigsteroonie

avogadro wrote: »

and do divorces take such a long time?

Mine took over three years.

Guest101

So it goes to court then.


That literally has no bearing on his position with you.

piglet74

Tell him to give you a call when his divorce is final.

Maureen43

Guest101 wrote: »

So it goes to court then.


That literally has no bearing on his position with you.

Thank you for the honesty. I need to hear it!

I think I will have a conversation with him along the lines that, although I understand he's having a rough time, I don't want to be in a secret relationship. I am worth more than that.

Maureen43

piglet74 wrote: »

Tell him to give to a call when his divorce is final.

Fair point!