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How long before acceptable to fart in front of partner?

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  • Hubby & I fart in front of each other, I have diverticula disease if I didn't fart I'd explode.
    It'd not being disrespectful, it's sheer necessity.
    And what about fanny farts, there seems to be no way to keep those in.
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  • I have never taught anyone it is wrong, I said, I found it disrespectful, but of course it's between the couple to decide what theyb agree to be acceptable.

    As I said, my son and his partner go to the toilet in front of each other, I can't have brought him up to be that prudish.
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  • Peter333
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    Hubby & I fart in front of each other, I have diverticula disease if I didn't fart I'd explode.
    It'd not being disrespectful, it's sheer necessity.
    And what about fanny farts, there seems to be no way to keep those in.

    :rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: OMFG!
    I have never taught anyone it is wrong, I said, I found it disrespectful, but of course it's between the couple to decide what theyb agree to be acceptable.

    As I said, my son and his partner go to the toilet in front of each other, I can't have brought him up to be that prudish.

    Fair enough. :)
    You didn't, did you? :rotfl::rotfl:
  • catoutthebag
    catoutthebag Posts: 2,216 Forumite
    It's a disgusting and killing the love habit. When you undress each other, that would keep popping into my head.
  • catkins
    catkins Posts: 5,703 Forumite
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    It's a normal bodily function. I really don't see why people get embarrassed or funny about it? Surely if you're comfortable enough in front of a partner, things like that shouldn't phase anybody.

    I find it extraordinary that people would go out of the room especially.


    I agree. I see no reason to get embarrassed about a normal bodily function. Some people fart more than others but they are not, normally, doing it on purpose are they? I certainly am not going to go off to the garden or another room if I need to fart and, often, you don't get much warning.



    JethroUK wrote: »
    You can start farting as soon as you stop respecting them more or less


    I don't disrespect my OH nor him me but we are comfortable enough with each other that we don't see it as some big deal.


    For us disrespecting your partner is being rude or nasty to them or, which is absolutely unforgiveable, cheating on them
    Each to their own, I feel differently. There are some things I think should be private. My son and his partner go to the toilet in front of each other, we would never do that, nor would I allow my son in the bathroom with me when he was small.

    I also know many people don't feel it necessary to say 'please' and thankyou' to their partners, that is also their choice, but we always have done, just the way we are.


    Me and OH always say please and thank you to each other but we also fart in front of the other and go to the toilet in front of each other. If one is in the shower and the other needs the loo urgently what are they meant to do? Maybe go outside?


    Of course each to their own but I don't understand couples that don't see to be comfortable with each other and get so embarrassed about things. I know a couple that have been married for over 20 years and yet the husband has never seen the wife naked. She goes into the bathroom to get dressed and undressed, won't have sex with the light on or in daylight.
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  • catkins wrote: »





    I don't disrespect my OH nor him me but we are comfortable enough with each other that we don't see it as some big deal.


    For us disrespecting your partner is being rude or nasty to them or, which is absolutely unforgiveable, cheating on them




    Me and OH always say please and thank you to each other but we also fart in front of the other and go to the toilet in front of each other. If one is in the shower and the other needs the loo urgently what are they meant to do? Maybe go outside?


    Of course each to their own but I don't understand couples that don't see to be comfortable with each other and get so embarrassed about things. I know a couple that have been married for over 20 years and yet the husband has never seen the wife naked. She goes into the bathroom to get dressed and undressed, won't have sex with the light on or in daylight.

    I have been to. the pub down the road before now. I would be mortified if either of us went to the toilet in front of each other (and yes, we have seen each other naked!).

    But it is up to each couple to decide what they find acceptable, it is no-one else's business, and neither is their sex life.
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  • catkins wrote: »
    Me and OH always say please and thank you to each other


    My OH farts near me and I say Thanks for that

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  • meritaten wrote: »
    I could ask my cat to give him farting lessons........talk about 'silent but deadly'! he sleeps on the sofa back just behind me and I never hear him fart - the first you know about it is the horrendous stink!

    Really? My cat hasn't farted once in 8 years.
  • Oh no not another fart post. So funny I'm crying,but that's my toilet humour!!!
    Hubbie is trying to act the prude, but he farts too. We fart in front of each other. I want to know why he always times it to have a poo when I'm cleaning my teeth. I obviously wouldn't fart in public,but it is sometimes very painful to keep it in so have to let it out somewhere, usually in my car when I'm on my own.
    Yes horses fart. My friend's pony always waits until I am picking out his back hooves to let one out. I always thank him for that.
    Better out than in I say.
  • We all fart, we all poop etc etc etc, but I tend to think that if you want to find your partner sexy (weird tastes aside) that its best done in private whenever possible, I dont have an issue with burping, but if my GF farted in bed then wafted the duvet at me , thats a passion killer
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