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Husband's 10 year+ affair with other woman he met online, I'm worried now.

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  • LilElvis
    LilElvis Posts: 5,835 Forumite
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    silvemn32 wrote: »
    It's ONE day of work, and I do monitor my kids' Facebook, usually.

    As for the anomalies, well, my husband has become very into online poker lately as well, so finances are a bit of an issue there, we argued a bit about it since November.

    I have had a lot of work on since October, and at least next week I only have the beginning and end of the week, thankfully, in work.

    Money is the issue due to husband's gambling problems.

    Has he been drinking excessively too?
  • Gloomendoom
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    LilElvis wrote: »
    Has he been drinking excessively too?

    And drugs... what about drugs?
  • swingaloo
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    edited 29 January 2016 at 9:55PM
    You posted another thread tonight saying you had a budget of 30,000 for a car as you are looking for a new one but on this thread you have not got money to repair the other car.

    On another thread posted an hour ago you are telling people to Google what street lamps their council uses.

    At the same time as dealing with a massive family crisis! If I had your problems I would give 2 hoots about the council lighting but maybe thats just me.
  • LilElvis
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    swingaloo wrote: »
    You posted another thread tonight saying you had a budget of 30,000 for a car as you are looking for a new one but on this thread you have not got money to repair the other car.

    On another thread posted an hour ago you are telling people to Google what street lamps their council uses.

    At the same time as dealing with a massive family crisis! If I had your problems I would give 2 hoots about the council lighting but maybe thats just me.


    Don't forget that, "nudge nudge wink wink", we should all be desperately trying to work out which celeb the husband's love interest resembles.
  • thorsoak
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    8.21pm : worrying about her OH and children

    8.55pm : Asking about cars .......

    Horse? Cow? No....BULLSH 1 T !!!!

    Pull the other one, darlin - it's got bells on!
  • suki1964
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    Who has the popcorn?
  • suki1964
    suki1964 Posts: 14,313 Forumite
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    Can I ask, seriously, why do members invest so much of their time and experience to threads like this?

    I mean seriously , there are more holes in it then a Gouda
  • thorsoak
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    suki1964 wrote: »
    Who has the popcorn?

    Not me ...I'm going to bed - and won't check on this first thing in the morning, either!
  • Ms_Chocaholic
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    thorsoak wrote: »
    Not me ...I'm going to bed - and won't check on this first thing in the morning, either!


    Taking bets on whether the first post will be replaced by .........................................
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  • sillygoose
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