I Think She Has Munchausen's Syndrome?

Poppie68

bluelass wrote: »

The daughter in law to be (they are not yet wed) has told people she wants another child even though they can just afford to keep a three year old. It would be a disaster if this happened and my hubby thinks so too. My SS would like to get out of rental property and buy and if she got her way it could not happen. Their son is not yet out of nappies and she just could not cope so I think it might be wise to inform the local social services and im only thinking of the present childs and not yet born childs interests.

Your ignorance and stupidity are actually staggering!!!


BUTT OUT.....It's no business of yours, it's only in your warped nasty mind the child is in danger...... Support the girl instead of constantly stabbing her in the back....Hopefully your SS will find his balls soon and tell you to F***off...

bluelass

I intend to tell social services she is unstable and this has been confirmed by a doctor. My SS does not want another one for a good few years but again she does not listen. I am not being awful and I am only considering contacting then I have not actually done so yet.

Person_one

bluelass wrote: »

I intend to tell social services she is unstable and this has been confirmed by a doctor. My SS does not want another one for a good few years but again she does not listen. I am not being awful and I am only considering contacting then I have not actually done so yet.

I suppose it's up to you if you want to waste the valuable time of social services staff when they could be helping people who really need it.

Quizzical_Squirrel

God's teeth.

Pixie5740

She can't get pregnant on her own. If SS really doesn't want another child then this is something he should discuss with his partner and take steps to prevent.

thorsoak

bluelass wrote: »

I intend to tell social services she is unstable and this has been confirmed by a doctor. My SS does not want another one for a good few years but again she does not listen. I am not being awful and I am only considering contacting then I have not actually done so yet.

The answer lies in your stepson's trousers! If he doesn't want another child, then he doesn't have to have coitus with her. If he keeps his pecker in his pants he won't be the father (if she becomes pregnant) and it would not be his responsibility.

Georgiegirl256

Is anyone seriously believing this?! I think the OP just likes stirring things up!

Pollycat

bluelass wrote: »

I intend to tell social services she is unstable and this has been confirmed by a doctor. My SS does not want another one for a good few years but again she does not listen. I am not being awful and I am only considering contacting then I have not actually done so yet.

Do you really honestly think this is any of your business?

Does your husband agree with you about contacting social services?

There's another thread on here from a granny whose DIL & son have stopped her seeing their child, her grand-daughter.

I would read that and think very carefully about your next step.
I doubt you'd get much sympathy on here if the same thing happened to your and your husband.

fairy_lights

What exactly do you expect social services to do? Forbid them from having sex in case a child is concieved?

FBaby

I intend to tell social services she is unstable and this has been confirmed by a doctor.

Surely if that is the case, then you don't have to worry about it, the doctor is much more qualified and trained than you to decide whether there is a safeguarding issue and whether SS should be involved.

How do you know that your SS doesn't want another baby? Has he told you so? If that's the case, he needs to learn to keep personal information to himself and his fiancee and certainly not share it with someone who will use any information against him and her.