Here we can all be heard for a little while. Part 2

Torry_Quine

Tea I haven't been where you are but please remember how scared he made you feel. The police wouldnt have taken it so seriously if it was just nothing of concern.

Marlie please don't attack Faerie who is very vulnerable

Thanks to all who posted kind messages to me. I feel a little better today but know that the next couple f weeks will be hard. Penguin about death Next week I will be the age my mum died and the following week is the anniversary of her death and she died at Easter. End penguin

I know I am more anxious as Im biting my nails which I had stopped. not as bad as before when I had bitten down to the quick. Any tips to stop

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Tea,

Please re-read your other posts from when FOH made you scared.

I'm not going to say anything more, but please read them as if you were someone else.

Hugs to all.

HBS x

faerielight

she's making me out to be the perpetrator and judging anyone with mh probs..I hate it when they poke me with a stick, knowing I' m mentally ill, then watch me unravel and call me a liar!!Then use the same old*** to brink makeup into my housing problem..please dont think I'm judging anyone with mh issues. the company has asked the courier for a discription of him, as are the police now.. He has a history of stealing my mail.. so sorry if I jumped to the conclusion that he took it.. The police will find out anyway, They told me tat he is still on their radar. please make it stop it'shorrible.please make it stop please

mellymoo74

HBS hugs.
Where you been?

Right back to humming sorry everyone a bit sensitive at the moment there is way too much in the news that's triggering

Pyxis

Happilymarried2013, thank you soooooo much for de-hovering and giving us the benefit of your experience. That was very kind of you.

Welcome to the thread! Please feel free to drop in and just chat if you want to! You don't have to have a MH issue!

Ono, your post was brilliant!

Yes, Tea,along with the others, I want to reiterate how frightened and distressed you were. You were so frightened that I was frightened!
As Ono says, with hindsight it might seem like things were trivial, but they weren't, you know. No-one on here thought they were trivial at all. Neither did the Police.


Marlipanda, thank you for giving us your viewpoint. However, this is a very non-judgemental thread, and there are a lot of vulnerable people on it. Whatever some people might do, or are perceived to be doing, (and I am not talking about anyone in particular here), there are reasons for them doing those things, and it is important to use understanding and compassion. That way, perhaps we can be of help. People's fears can materialise in all sorts of ways; some may be misguided, but we try to understand the fears behind the words or actions.

I appreciate very much that you feel that people on the other thread have been accused unjustly, and that you are hurting as well. None of us like to see anyone hurting; that's why this thread is here, for mutual help, support and empathy for whatever forms the problems take.
I hope people on here will see that Marli is hurting too, and be equally non-judgemental, as we like to be with everyone here.

So ............ (((((((((((Faerielight))))))))))))))

......and .....(((((((((((Marlipanda))))))))))))))

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Ahh thanks Melly life has been crazy busy at the moment, confirmed redundancy at the end of May, hopefully two interviews next week though

I shall hopefully be on a bit more now, I missed you all when I was only popping in to catch up

HBS x

surveyqueenuk

Another hummingbird, compelled to delurk...

Faerielight Would you feel comfortable PMing me the name of the company you ordered from? I am rather good at writing stern and threatening letters and I will be happy to write one for you.

tea_lover wrote: »

The main problem is that I've now realised he's just not stalking me! He made some bad decisions one weekend (with the following and turning up at the house) but since then it's been a few emails, a letter and some birthday presents.

That's called stalking. Please pardon my bluntness with the following penguin...

PENGUIN

If you go against police advice now and he ends up doing something worse then it's likely that you will not be taken seriously in court. You'll be made out to be a fickle woman and the prosecution will eat you alive.

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Pyxis

surveyqueenuk, you're another very kind person!


(I'll remember you when I need a stern letter to be written! )

faerielight

That's so kind of you survey queen.. the hate crimes officer that dealt with the harrassment from him is going to call me later on this eve. She will have got hold of the signature/discription by then.I don't want to rock the boat with the company I bought the things from, as I need to reorder it if I don't get the parcel back.. it was some birthday presents that gave me the money to buy the mattress and bed base last month, and I wanted to get them something nice to say thank you to them..It's the company I used to get all my aromatherapy supplies from when I worked as an aromatherapsit. I haven't worked for over 5 years, hence I forgot that they had my old address.

I guess I will find out soon the mystery of the missing parcel, hopefully get it back and of not, paypal with refund me as they should have sent it to my paypal address and shouldnt have left it with a heighbour without my permission. I'm so sorry guys I lost the plot. I'm under so much stress as you know with big health and housing stuff on my plate.. being called a liar for the umpteenth time in the orher forums and bringing makeup that I bought so long agho now into my housing situation was really horrible and I just lost it.. I'm so sorry guys if I triggered you. I guess my emotional intensity is really high at the mo I got flooded with trauma memories of the abuse from the neighbour and it make me really angry to think that he had kept it, especially as he had a habbit in the past of stealing my post.. Maybe I'm wrong, maybe someone else signed for it, it's just brought back all the rage that I felt for him for abusing me for 2 years solid. I really hope you all don't think i'm a monster.. I would never judge people with mh issues.. apart from the signature of who signed for it, they will need a description of him, but I should have left that bit out as it got twisted up and I got accused of being a liar which is not ok on a forum.I know that once I get some mental health support that I'm waiting for from the trauma centre, I'll be able to deal with some of these traumas that I have not had any help for.. The trauma keeps stacking up and it's spilling out with emotional intensity.. Suffice to say I am definitely not in my wise mind at the mo.. please forgive e if i triggered anybody. x

Torry_Quine

((((((Faerie)))))