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Weekly Flylady Thread 31st August 2015

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  • Morning!

    Flying off list today, we are off on hols for a few days tomorrow so doing a pre holiday bits and bobs list:

    WM
    DW
    Work tops
    S&S
    Water plants
    Dog food
    Walk dogs
    Library books
    Bin out
    Wash car
    Hoover and clean inside car
    HHI, more if in mood
    Quick tidy of each room
    Quick dust all through
    Hoover all through
    Mop
    Strip and change all beds
    Pack.
    Swimming with children.

    Hmm, not sure I'll manage all that. Best get cracking!
  • Frizzle_2
    Frizzle_2 Posts: 1,104 Forumite
    Morning all,

    Last day of the holidays for me but two training days Thursday and Friday so that will ease me back in! Kiddies have another day so ds1 going to nannies and ds2 going to nursery.

    We have friends ove this morning so a general tidy up is needed.
    Monday I was impressed how tidy the place looked. Tuesday it was a bomb site again! How does that happen!

    Bedroom not too bad so will d the essentials.

    List for today

    Wudupa
    Book ds2 in for nursery
    Pay gas bill
    Sort out trophy order
    Get boys hair cut
    Wiped Din ing table
    hoover downstairs
    Hhi x 2
    Wm x 2

    Clear and wipe worksurfaces

    Wednesday ~ Bedroom and Landing
    Declutter the floor and vacuum it! See if you can find a bit of floor you've not seen in a while!
    Tidy up the shoes and clothes that are scattered about
    Tidy the linen cupboard..
    Hoover the stairs
    Tidy up playroom
    Grocery challenge-
    J- 52.40/£200 M- 187.56 A- 212.93 M-193.44 F-201.31 J- 240.62 D- £149.27 N- £210.69 O- 196.80
    S- 213.68 A- £213.03 J- 249.66 J-206.29, M- 252.91, A-£250, M- £250

    debt free as of feb 2015. Now saving for deposit for new house! Moving in June 2015!!!
  • Ha I don't even remember creating that and certainly haven't done any here for a long time :eek::p

    Mmmm. I haven't seen it. ionofan could we have a copy? I'm feeling like an energetic cleaning session.
    Goals - Weight loss 6/26lb at 22nd Jan 18
    Mmmm. 26lb at 1/7/18. Oops:o
  • melliec
    melliec Posts: 255 Forumite
    In again today. Managed everything yesterday except clearing out a cupboard... but I changed the disgusting filter on the cooker hood so that's okay :)

    Have a good day everyone :j
  • Jazee
    Jazee Posts: 9,457 Forumite
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    Morning all. MIA yesterday but I did change the bedding and do the dailies around the paid stuff.

    This morning I've cleaned a couple of windows and done the dailies. About to start paid stuff now.

    Biscuit Monster - have a great holiday

    Thanks all for your replies about the wedding, I've decided to go with Kazwookie's suggestion of a bottle of champers and a card.

    Have a great day everyone.
    Spend less now, work less later.
  • Argh, still haven't done anything! This is bad :( going away from Internet and not coming back until more than half of the things done off list.
  • Morning all!

    Completely understand your dilemma mumto5. Been there once or twice myself.

    Currently feeling completely useless here. DH is doing a great job on a day to day basis - we are fed and the washing is done. But the rest of the place is falling to pieces. Mentally I am fine, but the minute I try to do anything I start to shake.

    Anyway DS is off this week and he has volunteered to take me to the hospital for today's blood test.

    I feel for DS. All his mates are in relationships which is tough, but he found out last night that his best mate is going to move in with his girlfriend, but they are going to Teesside to do it.

    I am sure our DSs will all be fine but being a mother is the hardest job in the world...
    :jFlylady and proud of it:j
  • Hugs CY your most important job at the mo is getting plenty of rest and giving yourself time to get well and let your medication do its job. Please don't feel guilty or useless you are most certainly not either of those.
    Everyone around you loves you and will only feel guilty if they see you getting upset learn to perhaps delegate a bit more and ask if the jobs that are really bothering you can be done as well.
    I feel your frustration.
    SPC~12 ot 124

    In a world that has decided that it's going to lose its mind, be more kind my friend, try to Be More Kind
  • Frizzle_2
    Frizzle_2 Posts: 1,104 Forumite
    CY- I completely agree with Mrs MP. You have three jobs on your list..... Rest, drink tea and rest some more. No guilt should enter your head. If they are bothered about the house they will do it. Just shows all the things you did! Could you perhaps get some some paid help in to lighten the load or just ignore the best you can. Visitors won't care if they come to see you.

    Updatedlist

    Book ds2 in for nursery
    Pay gas bill
    Sort out trophy order
    Get boys hair cut
    Hhi x 2
    Wm x 2

    Wednesday ~ Bedroom and Landing
    Declutter the floor and vacuum it! See if you can find a bit of floor you've not seen in a while!
    Hoover the stairs
    Grocery challenge-
    J- 52.40/£200 M- 187.56 A- 212.93 M-193.44 F-201.31 J- 240.62 D- £149.27 N- £210.69 O- 196.80
    S- 213.68 A- £213.03 J- 249.66 J-206.29, M- 252.91, A-£250, M- £250

    debt free as of feb 2015. Now saving for deposit for new house! Moving in June 2015!!!
  • pigpen
    pigpen Posts: 41,152 Forumite
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    Morning all!

    Completely understand your dilemma mumto5. Been there once or twice myself.

    Currently feeling completely useless here. DH is doing a great job on a day to day basis - we are fed and the washing is done. But the rest of the place is falling to pieces. Mentally I am fine, but the minute I try to do anything I start to shake.

    Anyway DS is off this week and he has volunteered to take me to the hospital for today's blood test.

    I feel for DS. All his mates are in relationships which is tough, but he found out last night that his best mate is going to move in with his girlfriend, but they are going to Teesside to do it.

    I am sure our DSs will all be fine but being a mother is the hardest job in the world...


    Would it help if you wrote a list of things you see need doing, the things which bug you most and ask them to do those??

    Would they be receptive to that?

    Is there anywhere a cleaner could be hired, even as just a one off to get things ship shape again?? Could you cope with that?? Do MacMillan have any services like this you could access??

    If I could drive I'd be over there with my Marigolds and Microfibre and you could boss me about a bit.. I can't do much as my hips are awful.. but I'd try!

    And visitors are coming to see you NOT your house.. and if they are coming to see your house they can help you a bit too!!
    LB moment 10/06 Debt Free date 6/6/14
    Hope to be debt free until the day I die
    Mortgage-free Wannabee (05/08/30)
    6/6/14 £72,454.65 (5.65% int.)
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