Stag do - strip joints.

gayleygoo

Aside from the issues of whatever venue you attend, I don't think it would be fair on your mates for you to have two stag-dos. These nights/weekends are often jovially talked about many years later and mates who didn't get to go to that one might feel like they missed out. Also, stag nights can be expensive and unless your friends are loaded, or you are paying for it all, it might be a bit much to ask some people to pay twice.

KARO

Gavin83 wrote: »

As I pointed out a minute ago I suspect much of your opinion on this matter stems from your religion. Partaking in pornography doesn't strike me as particularly Christian.

'Let him without sin throw the first stone'.. or something along those lines!

DKLS

dirty_magic wrote: »

I'm debating whether to Google this or whether I'll regret it... I'm so naive!

Googled it... would never have guessed!

Which definition did you go for?

This daisy chain involved the Groom and four [STRIKE]hookers[/STRIKE] erm strippers and props.

KARO

Jagraf wrote: »

Isn't it a lifestyle choice? Strippers are often very bright men and omen, they wouldn't thank you for telling them they were wrong to do it.

It is a choice, but hand on heart would you be happy if you found out that your daughter (or son) was working as a stripper?

These women are just pieces of meat to the men, but they're someone's sister/girlfriend/daughter/mum.

dirty_magic

DKLS wrote: »

Which definition did you go for?

This daisy chain involved the Groom and four [STRIKE]hookers[/STRIKE] erm strippers and props.

Is there more than one? I'll have to look again now!!

Torry_Quine

KARO wrote: »

'Let him without sin throw the first stone'.. or something along those lines!

That's why I don't throw stones.:rotfl:

Gloomendoom

As a male, I've got to to admit that strip clubs and strippers leave me cold. I just can't see the attraction myself.

Savvy_Sue

Jagraf wrote: »

Isn't it a lifestyle choice? Strippers are often very bright men and omen, they wouldn't thank you for telling them they were wrong to do it.

And I wouldn't tell them they were wrong. And if it really was a lifestyle choice, that would be up to them.

But I'm certain not all the women working in such places are there of their own free will.

I probably know too much about the seedier side of life ... there is a wide gulf between the high class escort making free choices and the woman on the street corner.

mumps

I am a bit shocked at grown men being told what they are allowed to do. I wouldn't want to be married to a man who had to get permission to go out with his friends.

I guess a stint with the Vice made me realise that many man do all sorts of things that would shock their partners/friends/families. Personally I prefer the sort of relationship where my husband wouldn't feel the need to hide what he does. I suppose I value honesty more than anything. The problem with things being done in secret is that they are more likely to get out of hand.

Gavin83

Despite my opinions on this subject (although I've commented more on !!!!!! that stripping) I've never actually been to a strip club. However I'm going on a stag do at the end of this month and will be going to my first. If I remember I'll revisit this thread and give my opinions on it all.