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Stag do - strip joints.

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  • DKLS
    DKLS Posts: 13,461 Forumite
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    What sort of strip joints are we talking about?

    1. The ones were the women are top notch, and there is a bouncer the size of a small mountain itching to club you to death if you happen to touch the stripper.

    2, The pound in a pint pot places where audience interaction is covered

    3. Or one of the european style ones

    If its one or two I can't see the fuss if its the latter, well based on attending an army officers stag do in germany that I attended that is very much a different matter.
    All I can say is that I am so glad that all cameras and smart phones were confiscated and everyone abided by the laws of the stag.

    :eek::D;):eek::rotfl:
  • Gavin83
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    DKLS wrote: »
    What sort of strip joints are we talking about?

    1. The ones were the women are top notch, and there is a bouncer the size of a small mountain itching to club you to death if you happen to touch the stripper.

    2, The pound in a pint pot places where audience interaction is covered

    3. Or one of the european style ones

    If its one or two I can't see the fuss if its the latter, well based on attending an army officers stag do in germany that I attended that is very much a different matter.
    All I can say is that I am so glad that all cameras and smart phones were confiscated and everyone abided by the laws of the stag.

    :eek::D;):eek::rotfl:

    What's different about European style strip clubs?
  • Gavin83 wrote: »
    What's different about European style strip clubs?

    ping pong balls?
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  • DKLS
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    Gavin83 wrote: »
    What's different about European style strip clubs?

    Well it was fairly normal to begin with but an hour in and it was the first time I have seen the Groom, naked bar for a pair of roller skates, pushed onto a stage and what ensued next I believe in polite quarters its referred to as a daisy chain.
  • dirty_magic
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    amistupid wrote: »
    You'll be as cool with her having male strippers at her hen party?

    You didn't actually answer this OP!!

    I wouldn't say he couldn't go to one because I don't think it's fair if it's a group of lads on a stag do. He's hardly going to sit in the hotel on his own while all his mates go is he?

    I know he's been twice and the first time was a huge scam where they tried to rip them off and the second time he wasn't impressed with the standard of women! He also said it isn't a sexual thing and it all seems to be about humiliating the stag. They paid £20 each for a naked woman to boss him around and whip him basically while they stood and laughed. I think he's telling the truth when he says he didn't really enjoy either time.

    I also think a lot of the time it's pointless forbidding them to go, because from what I've heard they just go anyway and don't tell the girlfriends. At least my OH tells me he's been. I do say I wouldn't be happy with private dances though. I don't think he'd be into it tbh but I suspect I wouldn't find out if he had!
  • dirty_magic
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    DKLS wrote: »
    Well it was fairly normal to begin with but an hour in and it was the first time I have seen the Groom, naked bar for a pair of roller skates, pushed onto a stage and what ensued next I believe in polite quarters its referred to as a daisy chain.

    I'm debating whether to Google this or whether I'll regret it... I'm so naive!

    Googled it... would never have guessed!
  • 74jax
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    Wouldn't bother me in the slightest. Hubby wouldn't be bothered either of I went to one.
    Forty and fabulous, well that's what my cards say....
  • Torry_Quine
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    Gavin83 wrote: »
    Ok fair play. Then I apologise for my reaction. I'm glad it works for you.

    As I pointed out a minute ago I suspect much of your opinion on this matter stems from your religion. Partaking in pornography doesn't strike me as particularly Christian.

    no it would very much go against Christian teaching. :rotfl:
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  • amistupid
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    no it would very much go against Christian teaching. :rotfl:

    Sodom and Gomorrah?
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  • Jagraf
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    Savvy_Sue wrote: »
    I would have a very big problem with this. My problem is that I don't like the objectification of women and the exploitation which so often goes on there.

    No problem with the nudity.

    I know someone will say it's a woman's choice, no-one forcing her to do it, but often that choice is the best of two very bad options.

    Then there's the exploitation of the men who go there.

    Would I go to the Chippendales? I doubt it.

    Isn't it a lifestyle choice? Strippers are often very bright men and omen, they wouldn't thank you for telling them they were wrong to do it.
    Never again will the wolf get so close to my door :eek:
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