Stag do - strip joints.

gabriel1980

Savvy_Sue wrote: »

I would have a very big problem with this. My problem is that I don't like the objectification of women and the exploitation which so often goes on there.

No problem with the nudity.

I know someone will say it's a woman's choice, no-one forcing her to do it, but often that choice is the best of two very bad options.

Then there's the exploitation of the men who go there.

Would I go to the Chippendales? I doubt it.

A lot of women work there as a choice. They make a lot of money. I'm sure there are some women who feel forced into it, the only option left, but I do know a lot of strippers (I was married to one) and many very much enjoy it, the money especially. A lot of students do it to pay their way through Uni, a means to an end.


If anything the guys are taken very much advantage of in a strip club, you will leave penniless!

Gavin83

Savvy_Sue wrote: »

I know someone will say it's a woman's choice, no-one forcing her to do it, but often that choice is the best of two very bad options.

So your saying if the strip club wasn't there she would actually be in a worse way?

I don't have a problem with strip clubs and I've no doubt when I get married I'll probably be attending one. I'm sure my girlfriend would also have one. I wouldn't have a problem with this, it's not exactly cheating now is it? Not really any different to !!!!!!.

amistupid

It's quite likely that this thread is a wind up in reply to

https://forums.moneysavingexpert.com/discussion/5299129

from one extreme to another.

gabriel1980

Gavin83 wrote: »

So your saying if the strip club wasn't there she would actually be in a worse way?

I don't have a problem with strip clubs and I've no doubt when I get married I'll probably be attending one. I'm sure my girlfriend would also have one. I wouldn't have a problem with this, it's not exactly cheating now is it? Not really any different to !!!!!!.

To be fair a lot of women have as big a problem with !!!!!!, although in my opinion, they are slightly insane if they don't allow !!!!!!.

pickledonionspaceraider

gabriel1980 wrote: »

To be fair a lot of women have as big a problem with !!!!!!, although in my opinion, they are slightly insane if they don't allow !!!!!!.

If someone wants to look at !!!!!!, they are going to - whether it is ''allowed'' or not. Just putting a ban on something is a bit uptight, when they know their partner wants to pursue that route.


GIVE !!!!!! A CHANCE

gabriel1980

pickledonionspaceraider wrote: »

If someone wants to look at !!!!!!, they are going to - whether it is ''allowed'' or not. Just putting a ban on something is a bit uptight, when they know their partner wants to pursue that route.


GIVE !!!!!! A CHANCE

Every guy whether he's allowed to or not, looks at !!!!!!.

amistupid

Gavin83 wrote: »

I don't have a problem with strip clubs and I've no doubt when I get married I'll probably be attending one. I'm sure my girlfriend would also have one. I wouldn't have a problem with this, it's not exactly cheating now is it? Not really any different to !!!!!!.

No exploitation there then. *sarcastic rolly eyes*

If men or women want to go to a strip club on their stag or hen do so be it, I find it very unoriginal. My ideal bit of hot stuff on a stag do would be a decent vindaloo.

pickledonionspaceraider

gabriel1980 wrote: »

Every guy whether he's allowed to or not, looks at !!!!!!.

Completely agree. It seems unfair to have a ban on something, as in make the guy feel he is doing something wrong

Mrshaworth2b

You can swap mates with the man whose thread is about not wanting this, his best man would be right up your street keep the oh happy as well if your mates go on the blues bar stag.

Torry_Quine

gabriel1980 wrote: »

To be fair a lot of women have as big a problem with !!!!!!, although in my opinion, they are slightly insane if they don't allow !!!!!!.

It's not a case of not allowing !!!!!! but finding it degrading and inappropriate.

gabriel1980 wrote: »

Every guy whether he's allowed to or not, looks at !!!!!!.

No every man doesn't.

My husband has never been to a strip club and finds the whole idea wrong.