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We're 23 and my FIL has been living with us for a year

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  • trolleyrun
    trolleyrun Posts: 1,382 Forumite
    You choose whatever furniture and wedding you want - as long as it's within your budget. Nobody can tell you otherwise. Before you decide on which sofa to buy, have a look at https://www.nabru.co.uk
    I bought my sofa from them nearly 7 years ago and it's still good as new. Just an idea :)

    Good luck with getting FIL out of your flat and I wish you all the best for the future
  • Princess12
    Princess12 Posts: 28 Forumite
    trolleyrun wrote: »
    You choose whatever furniture and wedding you want - as long as it's within your budget. Nobody can tell you otherwise. Before you decide on which sofa to buy, have a look at https://www.nabru.co.uk
    I bought my sofa from them nearly 7 years ago and it's still good as new. Just an idea :)

    Good luck with getting FIL out of your flat and I wish you all the best for the future

    Thank you for the recommendation, I've already sent of for colour samples.
  • itsanne
    itsanne Posts: 5,001 Forumite
    Part of the Furniture 1,000 Posts Name Dropper Combo Breaker
    Princess12 wrote: »
    Valid points but..

    Why does money saving mean that I have a second hand or one costing next to nothing? Can I not search for a bargain that fits my desired and affordable budget for myself?

    Just because I could afford a suite for £1500 doesn't mean I'm going too. My budgets £800. That's my money saving there. Doesn't mean I should only go and spent £100. I've moved into my first home to not be able to put anything in it. I've had this money sat here waiting for this moment for over a year. Me and my partner work extremely long hours and work hard to afford our beautiful new sofa.

    Never mind the views on me having to have a registry wedding, a pub, what? That maybe someone's else's money saving dream wedding but it's not mine.

    Mines in be most beautiful hotel that I've come across. It's going to be my 'typical princess day' again I could afford to spend £15,000 if I wish but I'm NOT. I have set my own budget of £8000.

    That may be completely again your MSE rules but for me I'm saving sill based on MY OWN budget.

    I am sorry if that offends you.
    piglet25 wrote: »
    I think Big Aunty meant her post on money saving as a bit of tongue in cheek humour :)

    Princess12;68781265, you're probably too stressed just now to have recognised the intended gentle humour in Big Aunty's post. She wasn't having a go at you.

    Relax, enjoy planning the new living room and let us know when you have the house to yourselves (please :) ).
    . . .I did not speak out

    Then they came for me
    And there was no one left
    To speak out for me..

    Martin Niemoller
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