Former friend accosted me inappropriately

Pollycat

tomtontom wrote: »

Same person?

fionajbanana

Very similar!

Your 'little grey cells' are working overtime.

That poster's last post before being PPRd was on 26th Novemeber 2013 and this poster joined on 28th November 2013.

But this poster has also started threads about issues with friends, I'm not sure if it is the same friend or a different one in each thread.

She did say she posted when she was tired, upset & angry (which is neveer a good idea when you're sat in front of a keyboard).
I do hope by now she has calmed down and taken on board what every reply has said.

LilElvis

Pollycat wrote: »

Your 'little grey cells' are working overtime.

That poster's last post before being PPRd was on 26th Novemeber 2013 and this poster joined on 28th November 2013.

But this poster has also started threads about issues with friends, I'm not sure if it is the same friend or a different one in each thread.

She did say she posted when she was tired, upset & angry (which is neveer a good idea when you're sat in front of a keyboard).
I do hope by now she has calmed down and taken on board what every reply has said.

Retired "friend" with OCD cleaning tendencies who is also a technophobe. Remarkable coincidence.

Gingernutty

ScarletMarble wrote: »

I have said some examples of what she has done to me and has hurt me to a few colleagues. Most colleagues were disgusted on how she could change into this.Even some customers that live near her noticed this too.

pebbles88 wrote: »

why on earth did you talk to mutual customers about what had happened between you. To colleagues is bad enough, but to customers too? Very unprofessional. I guess it's got back to her what you've said hence what happened.

You do know you could be fired for this kind of behaviour, don't you?

Bringing the employer into disrepute.

Stop it.

Get off Faceache, !!!!!! about your former colleague, any other colleagues, get your head down to work and start looking for another job.

They're probably as sick of you as you are of them....

suki1964

LilElvis wrote: »

Retired "friend" with OCD cleaning tendencies who is also a technophobe. Remarkable coincidence.

Not to mention the friend who's neighbour chucks unwrapped nappies in the communal bin

System

peachyprice wrote: »

So, she no longer works there, but she was invited to a retirement do for a colleague.

What does that tell you OP about what your colleagues think of her? If they believed what you had told them about her they wouldn't have invited her to the do would they.

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She invited herself. The colleague that lives around the corner from her that does drive, asked my former friend's DH to take her as she wanted a drink. Her DH would not take the colleague to a do, leaving his vile wife behind. But there were about 4 other colleagues that live near too and in two cars. There was space for the colleague in one of the cars!

I did ask another colleague who sat next to the retiree at me said that my former friend was the only one that never spoke to the retiree. Why go to a do and not bother speaking with the subject of the do? Everyone else did.

System

19lottie82 wrote: »

Right, so you messaged your colleagues straight away to continue with the b!tchin?

I didn't b!tch in the messages, just told them what happened - left the pub to go to my car. She was there asking me why I've lied about her. Told her I don't want to talk to you ever, I've not lied and you ruined my evening'

This is giving out facts, not opinions. Those that replied where shocked and disgusted.

thorsoak

ScarletMarble wrote: »

I didn't b!tch in the messages, just told them what happened - left the pub to go to my car. She was there asking me why I've lied about her. Told her I don't want to talk to you ever, I've not lied and you ruined my evening'

This is giving out facts, not opinions. Those that replied where shocked and disgusted.

So what was your reason for posting? As you see from the responses, most of us think that you are both as bad as each other!

k3lvc

Is this the sort of behaviour I've got to look forward to as Mrs K3 ages :eek:. If you worked for me your future working time would be limited - especially if bringing customers into your childish/petty behaviour

Get over it, grow a pair and either avoid her or tackle it head on but do it by yourself without dragging others into it

19lottie82

ScarletMarble wrote: »

I didn't b!tch in the messages, just told them what happened - left the pub to go to my car. She was there asking me why I've lied about her. Told her I don't want to talk to you ever, I've not lied and you ruined my evening'

This is giving out facts, not opinions. Those that replied where shocked and disgusted.

There was no need for you to message your colleagues straight after the event to "fill them in". As already discussed it is unprofessional and won't do you any favours, despite what your colleagues may say to your face.

She must have a reason to accuse you of lying about her?

There are obviously 2 sides to this story. your side and her side. And I'm guessing the truth will be somewhere in between.

pebbles88

ScarletMarble wrote: »

This is giving out facts, not opinions. Those that replied where shocked and disgusted.

Or just said that in the hope that you'd finally stop discussing the situation.....