Here we can all be heard for a little while

mellymoo74

Right I have had enough
I'm done

calleyw

Thanks to everyone for your kind words.

I've had a enough for today and heading off to bed. I need to give myself a good talking to and sort myself out.

I need something more in my life to keep me occupied but no idea what. I don't work. I have plenty of stuff to do.

I don't know.

I hope everyone get a good nights sleep.

Yours

Calley

Waves_and_Smiles

Big hugs melly. I am so sorry that things are still so bad. I have missed you on the thread lately.

Big hugs to you too, Calley. I hope you manage to get a decent sleep and things feel a little brighter tomorrow.

mellymoo74

Sorry WaS just done

Waves_and_Smiles

We are all here for you, melly. You aren't alone.

mellymoo74

Thanks WaS.
I work hard to keep OH on an even keel I don't need crap like today.

Tired, had a huge relapse, just had enough

onomatopoeia99

calleyw wrote: »

As I don't know whats "normal" in a relationship. How often you see each, contact each etc etc.

There is no normal, it's whatever works for the people involved. Not that I have a large sample to go on!

Wellyboots6

Just caught up on your thread Melly, hope you are OK. I suppose the plus point us that you should be getting some good evidence together now, although it probably doesn't seem like a positive at the moment.

I'm putting Little Sod on eBay. Took him to brother and sister-in-laws tonight for a games night. Last time we went he just snoozed under the table while we played. Tonight he ran round barking, chasing their dog and trying to squash it, opening the doors in the flat and letting himself into the bedroom, jumping on the furniture and generally being a pain. The crosser I got with him the more he thought it was hilarious! Never been so embarrassed. He will not be going on social visits again!!

mellymoo74

No not ok

OH relapsed badly and has has an incident (I stopped him so is okish)
I have had a relapse.
Think one if the old uns witnessed it so gonna ask for a witness statement tomorrow.

ETA he was showing off both mine are prone to it (Freya tend to veer towards violence, boos humpibg)

Wellyboots6

Not good, it makes me sad to think people can be that cruel just for the sake of it. I really hope karma kicks them a good un for you soon.

He was definitely showing off. He gets himself in such a tizz sometimes though I am sure he can't actually help himself.
So yes Elsien, he is pretty good at occupying himself, just not very productively!