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Pyxis

Yes, I understand, Bluebell.
There's nothing worse than feeling that the very people who should have your back, don't. It makes you feel very lonely.
I'm sorry your OH didn't stick up for you, and I'm sorry you feel so alone.

You're not alone here, though. :A

calleyw

Bluebell68,

Here is a big (((hug))) for you.

its horrible when friends and family turn on you. And you partner does not support you. It hurts to the bone.

As Dragonette said. We will make a duvet fort with lots of your fav beverage and biscuits.

If your family are that horrid then maybe you need to cut them out your life. Please don't feel guilty you have done nothing wrong.

Please don't go anywhere. Please stay and talk to us. That is what we are here for. To listen.

Yours

Calley

Bluebell68

I think I am alone vicious nasty texts I blocked them now they go to spam

how daft if was someone doing this to my family I would stand by them
he stood their then went out
didn't make me a cuppa or hug me

all he needed do was say one sentence to a certain person an it would of stopped

xxx

Pyxis

Bluebell68 wrote: »

I think I am alone vicious nasty texts I blocked them now they go to spam

how daft if was someone doing this to my family I would stand by them
he stood their then went out
didn't make me a cuppa or hug me

all he needed do was say one sentence to a certain person an it would of stopped

xxx

Cut the vicious ones out, and tomorrow talk to your OH.

Right now, here......(((((((((((())Bluebell)))))))))))))))

calleyw

Bluebell68 wrote: »

I think I am alone vicious nasty texts I blocked them now they go to spam

No you are not alone. We are here.

I would turn your phone to silent so you can't hear the texts come in. As that will put you on edge.

Have a nice relaxing bath and then go to bed and get the best nights sleep that you can.

These people are not worth thinking about or putting any of your energy in to at the moment. be selfish and think of yourself only.

Yours

Calley

Pyxis

And I know it will be a pain, but tomorrow, look into changing your mobile number.

I had to do that a few years ago, after harassment from family members, and it was great to be able to look at my phone without a feeling of dread!

dragonette

bluebell that sounds horrid. I had to change my mobile number a few months ago, it was free and happened really quickly. Then you can give the new number to those you want to have it, and can trust to not pass it on! Those you would like to keep contact with can call the landline (though I often unplug move when I need peace).

Gemini yes , that was my reasoning too. But they are !!!!!ing about me and my callousness to anyone who will listen. Quite a few mutual friends are trying to limit contact with them as a result. Is very sad, but I just can't deal with it

jobbingmusician

Hugs to everyone who needs them, and welcome to (((((bluebell))))) (Weclome with a special protective hug). I wonder why your OH isn't being more supportive? Has this brought up something for him too?

There's a lovely episode of the Big Bang Theory (my current favourite!) where Amy and Sheldon build a fort together. And it's beautiful - although it's made of blankets and sheets it has fairy lights inside, which is what really make it for me. So I've just put some in our fort - hope no-one minds!

I also hope WaS has had a lovely day at the castle! It's just SOOOO brilliant hearing about her holiday. She really has a very special gift of childlike enthusiasm - and I hope no-one will mind if I wave a special wave to Lucee

Pyxis

Oooh yes! The castle!

Would WaSp dress up as a mediaeval knight?

No? Shame! :rotfl:

Then you could lean out of a window, and do your damsel in distress bit, WaS!

elsien

Getting WaS as Rapunzel images now. Hope you enjoyed the visit.