4th date this week !!!!

scooby088

Even going slow i would text about 5 or more times a day or even call say twice a week, and see atleast twice a week, that is my version of slow anyway, but 4 dates in 2 months is more like a friendship than what could be a relationship. Honest advice now is cut your losses and let her down.

System

GTR_King wrote: »

I wouldn't do that anyway at all maybe once you been with them for a few years

.... again if you left it a few years I'd wonder if you didn't 'fancy' me.

GTR_King

If she only wants friendship then I will move on.

I meant months to a year will do me

System

You can never have too many good friends but at least you will know where you stand.

GTR_King

I don't know if she wants a friendship but it feel like she dose... She hasn't texted me yet. Looks like she won't get back to me. gonna see if she texts me tomz & if she don't text me i will not bother turning up to that date and move on as not being messed about....

Poppy9

Ozzuk wrote: »

Perhaps we're just more adventurous in Wales

I'm in Wales

GTR_King wrote: »

I don't know if she wants a friendship but it feel like she dose... She hasn't texted me yet. Looks like she won't get back to me. gonna see if she texts me tomz & if she don't text me i will not bother turning up to that date and move on as not being messed about....

Thats very rude to ignore you since Sunday. If she's not interested why can't she just say. I think it's hurtful to keep someone dangling.

Stevie_Palimo wrote: »

I'd book a hotel suite up for the night and then you will see if she is into you or not, I also think the rather lapse contact towards you could be that she is already with someone and maybe hedging her bets for all you know.


In any event booking a hotel may give you the proof required obviously at a time that suits both of you and if she cannot arrange a night away then this should set alarm bells ringing.


For me a 3rd/4th date should entail a whole lot more than kissing but maybe I just move fast or find easy women, Still suppose some people are more old school than me.

I would run a mile if a bloke booked a hotel room so early into seeing one another. To me that smacks of "only after one thing" and then gone!

springdreams

Stevie_Palimo wrote: »

I'd book a hotel suite up for the night and then you will see if she is into you or not, I also think the rather lapse contact towards you could be that she is already with someone and maybe hedging her bets for all you know.


In any event booking a hotel may give you the proof required obviously at a time that suits both of you and if she cannot arrange a night away then this should set alarm bells ringing.


For me a 3rd/4th date should entail a whole lot more than kissing but maybe I just move fast or find easy women, Still suppose some people are more old school than me.

Well I must be very old school because there is no way I'd be considering sleeping with someone I'd only dated 3 or 4 times. I'd be thinking more along those lines after 3 - 4 months.

raven83

Stevie_Palimo wrote: »

I'd book a hotel suite up for the night and then you will see if she is into you or not, I also think the rather lapse contact towards you could be that she is already with someone and maybe hedging her bets for all you know.


In any event booking a hotel may give you the proof required obviously at a time that suits both of you and if she cannot arrange a night away then this should set alarm bells ringing.


For me a 3rd/4th date should entail a whole lot more than kissing but maybe I just move fast or find easy women, Still suppose some people are more old school than me.

Blimey, some of us our ladies and like to be treated as such, if someone did that to me, one, I would think he is only after one thing, and two, would be peeved that they think I am that easy!

GTR_King

Poppy9 wrote: »

Thats very rude to ignore you since Sunday. If she's not interested why can't she just say. I think it's hurtful to keep someone dangling.!

You are right she last text me Saturday and ignored my text I sent her on Sunday... Saw her at football and she didn't even say hello. if she was interested she would of texted me by now...

We been talking for over 2 months and she agreed to see me tomorrow but I am not sure if i want to now & think she will not contact me at all.... Can't be bothered to text her as it up to her to text me... I don't want to be doing all the work... Will see what happens tomorrow but it don't look good So gonna move on is my best option thanks every one for you advice/input

JoW123

GTR_King wrote: »

You are right she last text me Saturday and ignored my text I sent her on Sunday... Saw her at football and she didn't even say hello. if she was interested she would of texted me by now...

We been talking for over 2 months and she agreed to see me tomorrow but I am not sure if i want to now & think she will not contact me at all.... Can't be bothered to text her as it up to her to text me... I don't want to be doing all the work... Will see what happens tomorrow but it don't look good So gonna move on is my best option thanks every one for you advice/input

If she was interested she would have said hello at football! I think you need to move on unfortunately.