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4th date this week !!!!

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  • Ozzuk
    Ozzuk Posts: 1,884 Forumite
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    funnily enough I had a first date last night, doggie (not dogging) date walking in woodlands. Super cool girl and very pretty and for some bizarre reason wants to see me again. Woohoo, can't wait for third date!

    (I'm kidding about the last part. Probably).

    I like her so much I've cancelled another date I had setup for Saturday.
  • System
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    I'm having my 6th "date" tomorrow :D i guess we are techincaly seeing each other...and i forsee a relationship...well we've already talked about it, i just jokingly said he was probably going to make me wait 10 dates and he decided he would to wind me up.:p :eek: Tbh i have rushed into pretty much every one of my last relationships so taking time to get to know him is working much better for me :)
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  • Its scary stuff. I can tell you as the op is finding out.

    I've made mistakes in my previous relationship but now I am aware of not making them again.

    I hope....lol
  • NWOIHTS
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    GTR_King wrote: »
    Thanks for the advice.

    she doesn't use her phone loads etc and has said she would rather save the talking face to face.... That's fine with me....

    She don't have Facebook but uses twitter...

    I am used to texting loads.

    I don't mind texting 2-3 a day etc....

    She knows I like her and she likes me.

    Just wanna take things slow for now but wished she would text me a bit more...

    Anytime she texts, set up a date, as she is reaching out and wanting to see you.
  • NWOIHTS
    NWOIHTS Posts: 188 Forumite
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    GTR_King wrote: »
    Thanks for the input. Hopefully it all gose well for me. But not gonna rush into anything & take things slow for now as in early stages but all good.

    Hi Again

    I read more of this thread and noticed you'd been repeating this line a good few times as above. I think that you're investing too much emotional energy into this and will end up hurt if it doesn't work out the way you intended - I know I've done it bore the pain of rejection for months after.

    I'd take her off the pedestal and not text and get on with your life, and when she does text set up a firm date, as I said previous, no texting to confirm or anything just go to the place for the date, and a small text to say I'm here, or will be there at 7PM is fine. I think you need to see where you stand so try going in for the kiss, if it doesn't happen I'd pull the plug on it as you're wasting far too much time and emotinal energy waiting on this girl and not getting anything out of it, or any signs of interest from her.
  • how did this conclude?

    I've been on a second date, great feedback, lots of text/ chat. then BANG........!!!

    no texts...... whats that all about......lol
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