4th date this week !!!!

GTR_King

Yeah thats what I am gonna do... You are right there she would of come up to me and wanted to talk at half time but she didn't at all... Not gonna text her anymore and leave it... If she wanna text me she can as the ball is in her court. But not wasting my time at all. Got other options out there...

trolleyrun

My 2p worth:

If someone likes you and you like them, communication should be easy in whichever form it takes. No kisses after 3 dates? That's incredibly slow, unless there's a religious or some other reason. If you fancy someone, you'd want to kiss them, even just briefly.
I've been with my BF for only a short time, but as our dates seem to last a week at a time, it's very different to what the rest of the world is doing.

I'm sorry to say, OP, but she's just not that into you. If she was, she would've texted you back or called you by now. Playing games is too silly for words and should be banished. Life would be a lot easier for everyone if people just said how they feel.

GTR_King

Thanks I did try kiss her 3rd date but she only let me kiss her on the cheek.... If she was interested she would of texted me by now to confirm the date...

I am gonna move on.

If she gets back too me great if not her loss...

marisco_2

She sounds rude and inconsiderate with no regard for your feelings. Even if she were to contact you tomorrow I think you would be very wise to keep a dignified silence and not go on the date. You deserve better than to be treated this way. Why waste time with someone so immature when you could meet a person who would treat you properly and make you happy.

GTR_King

Thanks mate I would rather meet someone who will make me happy....

Will wait & see if she contacts me then go from there

System

GTR_King wrote: »

Thanks I did try kiss her 3rd date but she only let me kiss her on the cheek.... If she was interested she would of texted me by now to confirm the date...

has there been any physical contact at all on her part? I'd want to hold your hand, touch your hair, shirt or whatever if I was interested a)to encourage you and b)because I wouldn't be able to control myself!

Randomjargon

3 dates and no action. Mate, leave her be....

3 dates deserves some action, am I right lads...!

purpleshoes_2

Im surprised this thread has made it to 4 pages. I'm guessing that the OP isn't a teenager but surely 3 dates in a few months, no speaking at the football and barely any text contact, anyone would be able to see that she's clearly not that interested?

GTR_King

Thanks for the advice I am 24 she was 23.... Gonna move on she not worth the bother and we haven't holded hands at all

Ozzuk

DSmiffy wrote: »

Really?? I'd be interested to know what age brackets you guys are in. I had no idea there was a rule regarding what date you are expected to sleep with someone by!!
I'm just getting back into dating, thanks for the update!!

40 in a few months :eek:

My bro dated a lot and told me that was a 'rule', along with not finishing with someone mid December-start of Jan. A few other people I know date said the same.

In reality, its whatever you and the person are comfortable with, there is nothing wrong in first date or twentieth date if you both are up for it and on the same page. Clearly for OP they aren't.

To OP...sorry mate. If you think she's worth it I'd maybe have a chat, lay your cards on the table and see what she says, that way you can walk away knowing you gave it a shot.