4th date this week !!!!

GTR_King

Thanks but it all sorted now & everyone has been a great help

Randomjargon

Kissed on the lips..tone it down mate, this ain't Penthouse stories, kids could be reading.

marisco_2

tea_lover wrote: »

Sorry but you're being a mug.

I disagree. The OPs gut instincts told him things weren't right with the person he is getting to know, he came on here and has listened to and appreciated everyone's advice and opinions. Going on a date with someone and letting them explain where they are at and believing their version of events does not make him a mug. Time will tell how this all pans out. I have the feeling that if the young woman cools off and isn't in contact without reason then he will walk away and chalk it down to experience. That doesn't make him gullible just reasonable.

DSmiffy

Ozzuk wrote: »

40 in a few months :eek:

My bro dated a lot and told me that was a 'rule', along with not finishing with someone mid December-start of Jan. A few other people I know date said the same.

In reality, its whatever you and the person are comfortable with, there is nothing wrong in first date or twentieth date if you both are up for it and on the same page. Clearly for OP they aren't.

To OP...sorry mate. If you think she's worth it I'd maybe have a chat, lay your cards on the table and see what she says, that way you can walk away knowing you gave it a shot.

Ok I'm a little older than that, but still it's good to know what people's expectations are on a date, although I don't think I could be as harsh as the woman detailed by the OP. That's just mean. I hope the OP is still seeing other people as well. Eggs in one basket and all that.

tea_lover

GTR_King wrote: »

Saw her at football and she didn't even say hello. if she was interested she would of texted me by now...

GTR_King wrote: »

You are right there she would of come up to me and wanted to talk at half time but she didn't at all...

GTR_King wrote: »

Thanks I did try kiss her 3rd date but she only let me kiss her on the cheek.... If she was interested she would of texted me by now to confirm the date...

Well each to their own and all that but I think she sounds incredibly rude. Not texting back straight away is one thing, but to see someone in person and completely ignore them? Just not on imo.

GTR_King

Thanks for all the advice... She told me in person why she didn't text me for a few days & said sorry about it. I understood her reasons & we are seeing each other again... So it's all good.. I went with my gut feeling & saw her...

Will keep my options open.... But will be the 5th date this weekend or next weekend will speak to her tonight

Randomjargon

Got any action yet mate?

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1st date for me last night.... three hours chatting, having laughs. kissed and we are meeting again on Thursday for a curry....:beer:...... job done....!!!
only messing.

aileth

dRic40 wrote: »

we are meeting again on Thursday for a curry....

Is that a euphemism? :dance::money:

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aileth wrote: »

Is that a euphemism? :dance::money:

hopefully..........lol

no its not in truth, just a curry.....:A