4th date this week !!!!

theoretica

GTR_King wrote: »

I think I have to accept that she don't text much until we are b.f/g.f stage

Are you assuming that if you become partners she will change and want to text you more? Or that you will accept it until then but at that stage you will ask her to text more?

marisco_2

It is nice to be slowly getting to know a straightforward person, who knows their own mind and carries themselves confidently. A bit of independence and not a total reliance on being with someone should be seen as an attractive quality in a person. This element is needed in relationships that remain really strong and healthy. Time to start feeling happy and secure and to make sure that you are projecting all that is important to you too. She sounds like the type of woman who would really respect that.

GTR_King

Thanks for your input...

I am gonna keep seeing her and asking her on dates for now and take things slow/at her pace...

When she feels more comfortable with me she will text me more/wanna see me more...

Gonna leave her & will text her on Wednesday to confirm date if heard nothing from her

Poppy9

I really wouldn't wait until Wednesday to text her again. You said in earlier posts she texts you to say you are quiet if you don't text her much so she may mistake that for lack of interest. She has also said she likes early morning and late night texts.

A short text saying "looking forward to seeing you Wednesday" is a nice way to let her know you are thinking of her with no pressure on her to reply.

GTR_King

Ok I have texted her this evening and got no reply that's why I am letting her text me

rachiibell

GTR_King wrote: »

Thanks so your saying that she would rather talk to me face to face than texting and want to take things slow.

I think I have to accept that she don't text much until we are b.f/g.f stage

Or she might just not be a big texter. I pretty much only text people to arrange things, I'm not one for the "how's your day going?" type texts and I doubt being in a relationship would change that!

GTR_King

Ok will see how things go etc and will let her text me....

Hopefully she will text me soon.

VestanPance

Only three dates in two months and communication with her is sporadic!

She's not into you that much.

farmerboy

How did we ever manage to get together before all this technology?:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Just let things develope at there own pace OP, thats what we did in the dark ages, and we seemed to manage ok. If you want to text her then do so, she'll do the same back if she wants or will tell you to slow down.

GTR_King

But we have both been busy but if that's the case then o well but will see how things go on Wednsday and if gose well will try see her at weekend but will go at her pace