4th date this week !!!!

GTR_King

She told me that she deleted Facebook as she don't use it anymore and don't need it...

3 dates in 2 month because I went on holiday that's why...

she has told me she likes me allot and wanna see me again...

But we are going for food on Wednesday if it goes well will try see her at the weekend.

I am fine with her not texting much but would be nice for her to text me a bit more....

Meatloaf1981

If you want her to know you like her, you should definitely see if she is receptive to a kiss on your next date. Something classy, not forced.

micky2phones

GTR_King wrote: »

She told me that she deleted Facebook as she don't use it anymore and don't need it...

3 dates in 2 month because I went on holiday that's why...

she has told me she likes me allot and wanna see me again...

But we are going for food on Wednesday if it goes well will try see her at the weekend.

I am fine with her not texting much but would be nice for her to text me a bit more....

Hi I really hope i am wrong but an ex of mine deleted her facebook so i could not see any of her friends and they could not know about me.

Only saw me when she was free because she was seeing someone else and always near to me.

Didnt want me to text her alot due to having her phone on view because the man she was with didnt trust her.

All this i found out after 18 months by letter from her mother as this was the third time she had done this.

But saying the above she could have deleted facebook to keep others from messing up her relationship with you.

She may not be able to text you alot due to work.

Meeting nearer to you could be due to her ex and what might happen if you met him.

Slowly could be because shes rushed into relationship/s before and got hurt.

But its seems you are seeing her more so that can only be a good thing.

GTR_King

Thanks for advice

So should I text her today?? Or just wait till Wednesday to confirm date? and if she texts me before then I will reply...

Every time I text her she always replies to my messages but hardly ever text me 1st.
When I say text me that u get home safely she always says no you text me when u get home and has told me she likes it when I text her 1st dunno why this is??

She is always out doing something with her family/friends...

She was with her ex for 5 years (I think it ended badly)

I don't mind taking things slow as don't wanna Rush anything

micky2phones

GTR_King wrote: »

Thanks for advice

So should I text her today?? Or just wait till Wednesday to confirm date? and if she texts me before then I will reply...

Every time I text her she always replies to my messages but hardly ever text me 1st.
When I say text me that u get home safely she always says no you text me when u get home and has told me she likes it when I text her 1st dunno why this is??

She is always out doing something with her family/friends...

She was with her ex for 5 years (I think it ended badly)

I don't mind taking things slow as don't wanna Rush anything

All seems good to me, if you feel like texting her then do it, but dont get upset if she dont reply.

The text may help you as you seem like a guy who wants more contact with her.

Who knows she may be waiting for you to text and in time she may text you more as the relationship goes on. Her ex may had text her every minute of the day, with what are you doing, where are you etc, and think you will do the same.

She may need her faith in men restored ?

GTR_King

Thx mate i will text her and see what happens but she normally replies to my texts and if she don't no big deal will just let her text me....

But she wants me to show her that I am 100% interested and when I don't text her she asks me why I have been quite etc...

If she get's annoyed that I text her to much she will tell me. But she has told me she don't mind that I text her and would like a good morning/evening text etc....

I would like more contact from her but over time she will texts me once she feels more comfortable with me....

some days she will text me 7-12 times and other days it could be 1-2 times or sometimes not at all but she always comes back after 1-2 days if heard nothing from me

duchy

She may not like Facebook
Her ex may "keep an eye on her" on FB
She may only have her family and really close friends on FB and you aren't at that point yet.

Some people just don't want their lives dominated by technology. Some of my friends can't believe I don't bother with texting unless I'm on my way to meet them but my reply is "My mobile is my servant -I am not its slave" as I loathe the way some people expect you to be instantly available and get the hump if you don't reply instantly. (Ironically I work in phone and broadband technical support so I'm certainly not anti technology)

GTR_King

I understand that she don't text me much at moment and she told me she deleted her Facebook.

But would be nice to hear from her a bit more... but still seeing her so all good (Unless she change her mind probably won't)

marisco_2

GTR_King wrote: »

I am fine with her not texting much but would be nice for her to text me a bit more....

The woman you are getting to know simply has a different communication style to you. I don't think you need to interpret spaced out messaging as a lack of interest in you. It may be that she has been involved with people previously via social media and found them to not be all they portrayed themselves as being. So taking things slowly and forming an impression of someone face to face is important to her. She appears to be sending out all the right signals that things between you are positive. I hope your date will go well and that you two will enjoy spending time with each other.

GTR_King

Thanks so your saying that she would rather talk to me face to face than texting and want to take things slow.

I think I have to accept that she don't text much until we are b.f/g.f stage She always turns up to the dates. Thanks hoefully 4th date will go well....

Sounds like she got hurt & don't wann get hurt again so taking things slow & wanna make sure I am the right one for her...