We all need to be heard for a little while.

Pyxis

whitewing wrote: »

My family members who do the guilt tripping are usually feeling very guilty themselves. It is wrong but they try to shift the guilt to make the pain bearable for themselves.
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Gosh! I sooooo agree with this!


And congrats on getting the email sent! :T

tea_lover

Yay, well done WW! Always good to tick off a nasty job from the to do list.

tea_lover

Annoyed now - replied to her email saying what time I was in this evening. That was over 2 hours ago and haven't heard anything back. So now I have no idea if she's planning on just turning up at some point, or what it's about still.

ETA: and was looking forward to a night in to catch up with last night's Poldark

Pyxis

tea_lover wrote: »

Annoyed now - replied to her email saying what time I was in this evening. That was over 2 hours ago and haven't heard anything back. So now I have no idea if she's planning on just turning up at some point, or what it's about still.

ETA: and was looking forward to a night in to catch up with last night's Poldark

Give her a bell, Tea.

tea_lover

Eek no, I don't do phone calls if I can possibly help it lol. I am such a wuss... it takes me days to work up the courage for a text sometimes :rotfl:.

codemonkey

Ugh that's so annoying tea. I hate it when people want to come round but don't give a time. Its so hard to relax.

We've got someone coming around to give us a quote do some work on our house. Was supposed to be coming at 7 but now is coming at 8. Grrr. I may infect him on purpose.

Also, a bit annoyed. I had a dream about a friend of mine and realised I hadn't heard from him for a while. So I sent him a facebook message. He's read it but didn't bother to reply and now I feel like an idiot.

whitewing

Give him a week, code, before you beat yourself up.

tea_lover

He may just be busy! I can read fb messages on my phone but replying to them on there is a nightmare so I tend to wait until I'm on laptop/tablet. He might have been having a sneaky read during a boring meeting but can't get away with typing a reply at work. He might not want to look like he has nothing else to do by replying straight away.... loads of reasons, none of which involve you being an idiot

codemonkey

Nah. I sent the message days ago, so if he was going to reply, he would have done. It doesn't matter really. Just annoying.

tea_lover

Am really irritated now. I replied at 1pm saying I'd be in by 5.30. Have heard nothing since...how rude! Also annoyed as now FOH has come back and made a mess. Why is he even still living here??