We all need to be heard for a little while.

jobbingmusician

Also I wonder if you are being too black and white? (Hope this idea doesn't make things worse!)

You certainly need a separation at the moment. He can't regain that ground - you need to be apart. However, if he really wants to win you back, he will have to make a super duper effort. There's nothing to say that if you move apart now, you can't fall madly in love later. I think it's unlikely, but he will still be a fish in the sea (albeit one with an awful lot of swimming to do!)

jobbingmusician

I actually logged on to post a rainforest picture - sort of! How cute are these!

http://www.boredpanda.com/cute-baby-chameleons-hatch-taronga-zoo-sydney/

PS Cheltenham is over! Hurrah for the end of stress, but rather less of a hurrah for the end of VERY profitable offers at bookies

Pyxis

jobbingmusician wrote: »

I actually logged on to post a rainforest picture - sort of! How cute are these!

http://www.boredpanda.com/cute-baby-chameleons-hatch-taronga-zoo-sydney/

PS Cheltenham is over! Hurrah for the end of stress, but rather less of a hurrah for the end of VERY profitable offers at bookies

The cakes are on you, then! Luscious coffee and walnut for me, please!

System

Pyxis wrote: »

The cakes are on you, then! Luscious coffee and walnut for me, please!

I really fancy some lemon drizzle cake

*ahem* got back from seeing the new guy today, and i'm going back to see him on monday.

Lol this is certainly different to seeing someone once a month at best. :eek: not that'm complaining I'm trying to play it cool, let things progress at their own speed. For now we seem content with spending time with each other and i'm enjoying having the company

Pyxis

WaS have you had your coffee yet?


Is it sloth-time yet!

jobbingmusician

Pyxis wrote: »

The cakes are on you, then! Luscious coffee and walnut for me, please!

I actually did make a cake this evening! How does home made Madeira sound?

tea_lover

Sounds lovely! I polished off the last off the weetabix cake earlier

Pyxis

jobbingmusician wrote: »

I actually did make a cake this evening! How does home made Madeira sound?

Yum!




Listen, I have to go to sleep now. I'mmleaving for Birmingham extremely early tomorrow for a day workshop, and won't be back till night-time, and won't have any internet access. (My phone doesn't support it! Really must get an iPhone!)

So I'll have to catch up with sloths and other animals late tomorrow.



Really pleased your date went well, MessedUp!

System

I may have caved slightly.....

..there were kisses..lots of kisses

I could get used to them haha :rotfl: ]

edit: on a serious akward note, i still talk to Beau sometimes, but recently he's be mentioning things (along the lines of one for time for old times sake etc :eek: ) and i don't know how to respond. like obviously i'm discouraging him from talking about it and trying to focus his thoughts elsewhere, but its going to get to the point where i have to say i cant do anything because it wouldnt be right as im kind of seeing someone else and i dont know how he's going to react to that.

lostinrates

xXMessedUpXx wrote: »

edit: on a serious akward note, i still talk to Beau sometimes, but recently he's be mentioning things (along the lines of one for time for old times sake etc :eek: ) and i don't know how to respond. like obviously i'm discouraging him from talking about it and trying to focus his thoughts elsewhere, but its going to get to the point where i have to say i cant do anything because it wouldnt be rght as im kind of seeing someone else and i dont know how he's going to react to that.

Why are you engaging at all? This behaviour is disrespectful and USING. Not even a fwb arrangement discussion ( of which I am personally quite in favour of, but not with exes) but a ' need, want, can use your feelings to get'. Its also disrespectful of you to your new relationship and yourself/ own future to be engaging in such confusing conversation. Mu.......move on.