Probable Breakup

Orlando_Virgin

BHM, with all due respect and consideration for your feelings, you are NOT listening to the advice you are being given. The people advising you on here have been through exactly the same experience and unanimously agreed that breaking all contact and trying to move on is the only way forward, for you to feel better and start to build again.

To put it another way, if you are ever to have any hope of getting back together with this girl, then now is not the time and you have to be happy again on your own, the past has to be the past and then it MAY work. Even then it's a slim chance.

Say you got back together tomorrow, how long would it be before the pressures of what has happened affected you both? You would want to know why, it would be on your mind. If you don't break this cycle now you are going to be unhappy for a long time, asking the same question over and over.

dragonette

You need to break contact. Totally. I'm currently on the other side of this, and my ex is truly starting to scare me.

For both your sakes, Move On. Without her

anotheruser

brokenheartedman wrote: »

She also says that she still loves me, enjoys spending time together and doesn't WANT to split up, but she THINKS we made need to. She also says she could regret it if we split up.

She wants to break up with you but doesn't want to hurt you, so she can still think she is a "nice" person.

Your relationship has become a habitual relationship - not going anywhere, not really "together" because you want to be, just because you've always been that way.

With someone who is riding the fence of "I want to date you but I want to break up with you" those girls are just a mess. Throw away the relationship and don't spoil what was a good time in your life... assuming it was good?

Download Tinder and have some fun with that.