How do I live ??

tommybuk

Do you have any friends who are in a similar position? Is there an option for two (or more) of you renting a flat/house together?


My rent on a flat is 350 PCM, now my OH lives with me its obviously half that.


Sometimes I wish I had rented with a mate rather than renting on my own for before meeting my OH. All bills would have been halved, and of course there is the social side of living with a mate


Don't think every bill is on your shoulders only, whether you choose to live with a g/f or a friend.


Tommy

fairy_lights

tommybuk wrote: »

Don't think every bill is on your shoulders only, whether you choose to live with a g/f or a friend.

But the bills would all be on his shoulders...his girlfriend won't be allowed to work. Or leave the house unaccompanied by a male relative, presumably.

Slinky

Jeremy Kyle will love this one..........

Peter333

[simon] wrote: »

Hello !

Women:

As for women. In my opinion, Women are here to reproduce, not to work, not be more successful than a male, but to look after kids. The male does the work. The troubble is women are been given too much power, they now choose the male, they now have the money and work to be independent and leave the male. They also use sex as a weapon. This in all slows down reproduction. The women should stay at home.

I dont agree that women choose a male, the male should choose the women. And thats exactly what i do. A successful business women may not choose me, but i would not choose her for reasons i have mentioned above. The kind of women i choose are low on self confidence, don't have much a d wont have much, the kind of women who agrees the man takes control. They are less likley to leave also. I am happy to settle down with this type of women.

The business women look nice yes, with there boots and skits ect, but i don't choose them for a relationship. At the end of the day they have to let their hair down, weekends in the clubs, when they have one too many and thats when you take advantage of the sort. And thats all thats needed to be fair. The ones that i settle with are ones who don't have an answer back. Its common phycology to be honest. So saying that a women wont look at me in my 30 / 40 years is a joke. I don't relay on them looking at me or wanting me, i take the ones who need me because they have nothing else. Win win.

The kind of friends i have and my social circle was mentioned. My social circle is make up of quiet, low self esteem people, i stand out with them, hence i attract girls that are also like that.

As for the car, i need the car at the moment, but when i get my own place i will probably ditch it. Or buy a ten year old run about.

Thank you for the replies and the help.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::rotfl::

Seriously, priceless, utterly, utterly priceless. You should be on stage, you're HILARIOUS!!!

Particularly the bolded bits!!!

And you wonder why you are single? I don't think anyone here is surprised at that. And if these women stay at home and look after hubby and kiddiewinks, what happens when the kids grow up and the woman is 30 years from retirement?! Or hubby decides to leave, because the missus hasn't taken care of herself enough, and he fancies a younger model? How do you think she will fare in the workplace and the big bad world, as a middle aged woman who has never had a job?!

I really hope you're a troll, because I did not think that any men under the age of 60 existed, that think like that! Frankly, your attitude makes me feel physically sick.

I seriously hope you're joking!!!

Cautious_Optimist

Plenty of women are happy to be a housewife, if a man can support them.
The problem is that OP describes himself as an unemployable loser...

DRP

[simon] wrote: »

Hello !

So many replies to a simple thread.

My solution was answered in the first few posts. The benefit calculator has helped a lot. Thank you.

But after ready all the replies here. I must go on to give my own opinion to some of the responses here.

Firstly, income, work, career and taking on extra training / study. These are some of the suggestions mentioned above. Now i don't know much about what everyone does here, but working 7 days a week doesn't appeal to me. The word "boss" actually means that person is in charge of you, you been the slave, the word worker actually means robot. (Google) i refuse to be a slave or a robot. I don't need to be Rich, i just need enough to survive on and if i can get help with that its good for me. I am happy to work part time. The only reason i work full time is because i have to as i live with parents. However when i move out i may drop to part time as it suits me better.

The kind of person i am:
Am not a people person, people out side / customers / my work place chat to me and to be fair am just not interested. People who know me get to know what am like pretty quick and eventually stop bothering me, i like that. Am more than happy on my own, watching tv, go out on my bike / running and play on the computer. Money does not motivate me. I don't need to go traveling, i can view places on google, eat at the Chinese restaurant down the road and then skype random people in any country i like. Why bother working to spend 50 weeks working just to have a week or two holiday ?? I personally don't see the point of that. Work wise, i hate getting up for work at stupid o clock, specially when its cold, am always the last one in to work and the first one out.

Am not going to study or take any evening classes, this also costs money, to train up to be again a slave for someone else. Its like been programmed to do the work for someone else to profit more than yourself, i.e the investors, company owners and the like. No thank you. I soon get bored, so sticking to something i like is very hard indeed. Thus working for myself will soon become boring. I do t like doing the daly grind. The same thing just different say, it happens with all jobs. And even if it doesn't i just not interested in the people around me. I have tried to change and get on with people but always fail. Getting up on a morning and working gets me down and i feel unhappy. I like to do what i want to do each day. I am not depressed, i am more than happy doing my own thing, and not been told what to do or having any pressure put on to me. I hate pressure , therefore i really don't qualify for many jobs. You can only assume correctly that my chance of promotion at my work place is a no go area. You are not payed to do a job, you are payed also to act, speak and move how the boss sees fit. Thats not for me !

So now you know a bit about me, you will know that the idea of working oversea, and living at my work place makes me feel sick, and the idea of actually owning a home and having 90k plus of debt would make me feel suicidle.

Women:

As for women. In my opinion, Women are here to reproduce, not to work, not be more successful than a male, but to look after kids. The male does the work. The troubble is women are been given too much power, they now choose the male, they now have the money and work to be independent and leave the male. They also use sex as a weapon. This in all slows down reproduction. The women should stay at home.

I dont agree that women choose a male, the male should choose the women. And thats exactly what i do. A successful business women may not choose me, but i would not choose her for reasons i have mentioned above. The kind of women i choose are low on self confidence, don't have much a d wont have much, the kind of women who agrees the man takes control. They are less likley to leave also. I am happy to settle down with this type of women.

The buesiness women look nice yes, with there boots and skits ect, but i don't choose them for a relationship. At the end of the day they have to let their hair down, weekends in the clubs, when they have one too many and thats when you take advantage of the sort. And thats all thats needed to be fair. The ones that i settle with are ones who don't have an answer back. Its common phycology to be honest. So saying that a women wont look at me in my 30 / 40 years is a joke. I don't relay on them looking at me or wanting me, i take the ones who need me because they have nothing else. Win win.

The kind of friends i have and my social circle was mentioned. My social circle is make up of quiet, low self esteem people, i stand out with them, hence i attract girls that are also like that.

As for the car, i need the car at the moment, but when i get my own place i will probably ditch it. Or buy a ten year old run about.

Honesly the comments on extra income and jobs and training made me laugh. Some people must be working so,e right hours and then they moan because they pay too much tax !!! No body is forcing anyone to work ! If you decide to go to uni or other study and have it programmed in to you to work for other peoples benefit that is your own problem.

Just my opinions there.

Thank you for the replies and the help.

I love it :rotfl:

Classic reply :cool:

Cautious_Optimist

DRP wrote: »

I love it :rotfl:

Classic reply :cool:

He seems quite happy to drive a ten year old car and go out with women no other guy wants...

I think he is actually benefiting a few people in his community...

Mechanics, scrap yards, fast food restaurants (no need for those girls to watch their figures any more - Simon will take them on!)

Good for him!

kloana

"Forever virgin", anyone? :rotfl:

On a serious (and chilling) note, you sound a bit like that young chap in California who recently shot a load of people up, because women "didn't appreciate" him...

Cautious_Optimist

kloana wrote: »

"Forever virgin", anyone? :rotfl:

On a serious (and chilling) note, you sound a bit like that young chap in California who recently shot a load of people up, because women "didn't appreciate" him...

I think that case says a lot about the USA...

From what I've heard the women there are the least willing to form a short, but intimate relationship with an eager gentleman....

And the Working Girls? Remember what Hugh Grant got caught with..?!

PlymouthMaid

Well this thread has taken an amusing turn. What a low achiever. I am sure he will make some Watnetta Slob very happy one day and they can have whey-faced potato-like kids also with zero gumption.