Very worried - cheating husband?

PDC

kitty_kins wrote: »

Just a thought - are we certain the pictures were taken while your husband was living at the house? If the house and girl are paid for by the company, isn't it possible she has worked there before for other employees?

Just trying to offer an alternative to a cheating hubby!

That is a good point.

POPPYOSCAR

Ronaldo_Mconaldo wrote: »

Why are supposed to not think this is a troll exactly?

I agree.

Far too much detail IMO.

Reams

As an interpreter surely her behaviour is inappropriate as photo's taken on the Company property. Send them on to the CEO.

Buffythedebtslayer

Annie if you are reading this I am so sorry it has so gone off the original point of the thread! Always a risk I guess XX.


I really hope you are ok, am thinking of you and wishing you well XX

whitewing

You could potentially email the company with links to the photos, expressing concern about them being publicly available to a wife of someone who is apart from their family. It surely shows a lack of respect and judgement on behalf of the translator.

However, whether your husband is innocent or not, I can't see him being impressed by that.

lulu_92

OP have you spoken to him yet? We'd love an update so we can help more.

I hope you're okay. Stay strong x

prowla

a. What are the dates of the photos?
2. Was hubby there at the time?
iii. Does hubby even know anything about them?

caprikid1

"pay for his housing and staff"


As above its a company house this could be used by all their staff when not in use. This is a very different country to what we are use to in the UK.

Annie75

I was going to leave this to die out but seeing people wanted an update I'll say what's happened and leave it at that as I no longer wish to discuss this matter. I called him yesterday afternoon which is night time over there and he wasn't exactly happy with me calling. He had been drinking, I could tell by his slurred speech. I then questioned if he had been out drinking because of his speech and he started lying saying he hadn't been drinking and the connection between the countries was the reason his speech sounded slurred. The line was perfectly clear!

It then degenerated into a row for about 5 minutes and ended with him saying how much he hates me, he called me a boring nagging b****h and said he is going to divorce me when he gets home. I've tried to contact him since the row but he's not bothered to get back to me.

He changed after the emotional affair and I should have saw the warning signs earlier. I can't give him what he wants and that makes me useless to him. No amount of love or devotion from me will ever be enough to satisfy him. He doesn't even know how much it hurts me knowing I can't have children, all he thinks about is himself and what he wants! When we found out he !!!!ed off with his colleague leaving me to wallow in my own self pity. I had nobody to comfort me, but being so determined to make things better I forgave him and I carried on even though most of my soul was gone

Sorry to rant I've been drinking.

System

Sorry to hear that

You tried, and thats all anyone can ask but evidently he's not worth it. Try and be kind to yourself even though this must be a difficult time.

I'd suggest not trying to contact him right now, if you're drunk you're likely to be more emotional and it would probably only make you feel worse.