Very worried - cheating husband?

Vikipollard

When were the pictures taken?


If she is the company's translator, and therefore has had access to that house for a while, there's no saying when they may have been taken. The social media site would only say when they were uploaded.


Unless there is something which clearly identifies they were taken during your husband's tenure there, I would be cautious about accusing him of misbehaving.

74jax

Annie75 wrote: »

To post something about my husband then, I know he likes a nice bum and she has a very nice bum going by the pictures. I'm not going to accuse him of cheating whilst he is out there, I will wait until he comes home.

My husband likes a multitude of things, he loves kitesurfing it's his life. He goes away every weekend kitesurfing. With females who kite, he has them on Facebook, he has messages from them. It means nothing if you trust him.

Just because he likes a nice bum and she has one doesn't mean he'll cheat with her because 'it's there'.

Errata

Send him the link and ask him what's going on.

clarryd

Vikipollard wrote: »

When were the pictures taken?


If she is the company's translator, and therefore has had access to that house for a while, there's no saying when they may have been taken. The social media site would only say when they were uploaded.

I was thinking exactly as above. She must be in that house throughout the year with other business persons(men/women) so she has had loads of opportunities to get the pictures taken. Do the pictures not have a date of which they where posted on the facebook.

If you think he is dipping his wick elsewhere then you should just ask him straight out and do not go around the houses. Straight talking is the best as you know where you stand then. You will be able to tell if he is lying as you are used to him and his expressions and voice tone.

Straight talking is best.

Errata

Straight talking is best.

It is indeed. A short sharp cut is much less painful than a slow sawing away with a blunt knife.

DKLS

cherylsurrey wrote: »

I wouldn't worry.

The comment made by Browntoa is spot on! She's probably using her bosses house which is more flash than her own to take some private pictures thinking he will never find out. I know someone who did something similar and got caught out by their boss.

I suspect this as well, I have a friend who works as an estate agent, his profile pics are certainly not of his house, but he uses them to attract "top totty" as he puts it.

PlymouthMaid

No idea of your man is cheating or not but I really would not like a young gorgeous woman effectively living with my husband for several months a long long way from home. Many men (and women) would cheat in that situation. Would the OPs husband 'worry' if the situation were reversed? I bet they would. How to deal with it? Not sure but accusing him of anything is not the way to handle it.

LilElvis

Book a flight and "surprise" him.

ecgirl07

Vikipollard wrote: »

When were the pictures taken?

In firefox you can use an add on to view the details of the photograph:

https://addons.mozilla.org/en-US/firefox/addon/exif-viewer/

Tropez

You've got no evidence.

You were comfortable enough with this woman living in the same house as your husband when she was just the pretty girl who "looked normal" but now you've found out she has a racy side (and a lot of "normal" looking women do) suddenly your husband must be unable to control himself due to her peachy little bum and sexy undies?

Dare I suggest that possibly you were insecure to begin with and that's why you decided to start examining this woman's Facebook profile and then follow her digital trail to other social media? It's a lot of snooping and there's a phenomena called "confirmation bias" which is often experienced by humans in which we use the tiniest shreds of evidence that might support a theory we have as something that absolutely supports said theory.

Yet, in reality, you've said nothing that provides evidence that your husband is having an affair. He likes bums and she's got a nice one - I like redheads with a certain type of areola but it doesn't mean that any such redhead would necessarily find me attractive, does it?

Someone, at some point, took some sexy photos of her, I'll give you that one but that could have been a boyfriend, it could have been a girlfriend, it could have been just a friend. Even though she probably wouldn't have expected the wife back in England to follow her around social media, still seems rather reaching that she would post evidence of an affair to any form of social media, lest she branded a homewrecker by the locals.

You probably should ask him for your own piece of mind, just know that in doing so that if he's not having an affair, he's probably going to be pretty annoyed. I know that when my wife was over the other side of the world working, I'd have been bloody annoyed if she'd asked me that because I was missing her.