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Very worried - cheating husband?
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I don`t think finding sexy photos of this woman is enough to fear your husband is cheating.
This woman is pretty and has a profile of sexy shots and is working alongside your husband BUT why do you think your husband is cheating?
I have a friend who used to do glamour work online and offline for extra £. Some of her photos and videos looked like they had been recorded by someone but she told me that she never had anyone holding the camera at all!
She had used a lot of things to take the photos including ironing board - for height, bottles to hold the camera at an angle and even a home made tripod for tricky shots in tricky rooms.
Using a delay on the actual camera, and several takes later gave her a great portfolio.
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He is in a situation that is hard for you to understand. Its a different country, a different way of life and difficult to understand as you only know about it from your chats and what you have learned yourself. Could your imagination be running on overdrive?
If he really was having an affair would he really have her on his fb? Or would he be hiding her as best he could?
Phone him when you know he will be in bed, tell him you love and miss him. Your know how he would react to that. You will know if he is sleeping alone.
Hope the situation improves it must be awful tormenting yourself at home.0 -
Ronaldo_Mconaldo wrote: »Why are supposed to not think this is a troll exactly?
and one promoting a website where you can find sexy photos, no less. I'd say spam, not troll2021 GC £1365.71/ £24000 -
BrassicWoman wrote: »and one promoting a website where you can find sexy photos, no less. I'd say spam, not troll0
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I have read through your responses. The question that most sticks to mind is do you trust him? The answer to this is no. He had an emotional affair, not an actual affair with a work colleague. I never wanted to bring this up but I guess I have to. He wants children and when we found out I couldn't have children his emotional affair started with his work colleague. He put it down to needing a confidante. We decided to forget about it and carry on, although I will admit to not feeling worthy of him.
When I saw her pictures, I do believe they are taken by him and it is in his house, there is no doubt about that. He did a webcam tour of the house for me showing how nice it was, that's how I know for sure. The fancy clothing she is wearing is typical of clothing he has bought for me as well and looking through years of her facebook she clearly doesn't have the money for that type of clothing.
As most of you can gather I am very insecure. What I keep hidden and what I truly think never comes out. I see him with this gorgeous girl who can give him what he wants and there is barren old me who can't give him anything. I'm going to skype him now before he goes to work and ask questions about her to find out what's going on.0 -
Maybe she had the pictures taken BEFORE your husband moved in?
I can understand you being concerned, but i would not jump to the conclusion that he is having an affair. I would just ask him about the girl and mention the photos.(AKA HRH_MUngo)
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Next time before you throw an accusation, try google first just to make sure you don't make a whoopsie.
"Make a whoopsie"? No, I'm not 12, thanksI stated an opinion, I stand by that opinion.
The site is not big in the UK, and naming it added nothing to your story.2021 GC £1365.71/ £24000 -
does the photo data match up to your husband's phone/camera?0
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I hope that the Skype call went ok.
As for trolling/spamming I think not.0 -
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