Very worried - cheating husband?

wiogs

Annie75 wrote: »

To post something about my husband then, I know he likes a nice bum and she has a very nice bum going by the pictures. I'm not going to accuse him of cheating whilst he is out there, I will wait until he comes home.

Based on no evidence at all you accuse him of cheating.

Interesting tactic. :cool:

Annie75

wiogs wrote: »

Based on no evidence at all you accuse him of cheating.

Interesting tactic. :cool:

It's easy for you to say no evidence. If you found those pictures taken in your husbands house I'm sure you would be suspicious.

Mojisola

Annie75 wrote: »

It's easy for you to say no evidence. If you found those pictures taken in your husbands house I'm sure you would be suspicious.

So ask him about them but don't jump in by accusing him of having sex with another woman!

carefullycautious

can you print the pictures off and when he comes home ask him if he knew what was going on in the house. I would watch his reaction.

Are you sure it is the house she is staying in with your husband?
Maybe the girl has to earn money in other ways as well as translating, so they could have been taken for that reason.

Difficult one to call as I would not like to accuse if the poor man has no knowledge of what's going on under his roof.

carefullycautious

Annie75 wrote: »

To post something about my husband then, I know he likes a nice bum and she has a very nice bum going by the pictures. I'm not going to accuse him of cheating whilst he is out there, I will wait until he comes home.

You don't trust him do you?

marisco_2

Annie75 wrote: »

If you have read my essay, WWYD?

Talk to your husband. Be completely upfront and honest about what is concerning you. His reaction will confirm things either way. If he has been involved with this woman that will soon become apparent. If he hasn't then I think you can expect him to question the strength of your relationship, and the level of trust that exists between you.

wiogs

Annie75 wrote: »

It's easy for you to say no evidence. If you found those pictures taken in your husbands house I'm sure you would be suspicious.

It is not your husbands house it is a house paid for by the company.

As is this woman.

As already suggested perhaps the picture was taken by someone else "for fun" or has also been suggested there may be an ulterior motive which has nothing to do with your husband actually having an affair.

Got a link to her pics on that social media site? (no need to post it here on an open forum)

You might find more with a bit of digging.

wiogs

marisco wrote: »

Talk to your husband. Be completely upfront and honest about what is concerning you. His reaction will confirm things either way. If he has been involved with this woman that will soon become apparent. If he hasn't then I think you can expect him to question the strength of your relationship, and the level of trust that exists between you.

It may not become apparent. People do have affairs and not everyone gets caught.

fufu_banterwaite

Annie75 wrote: »

There is 1 picture of her in his house taken from behind with her putting her leg up on the desk with her skirt pulled almost up to her hips and her knickers around her knees.

That is impossible. Well without stretching her knickers a lot.

cherylsurrey

I wouldn't worry.

The comment made by Browntoa is spot on! She's probably using her bosses house which is more flash than her own to take some private pictures thinking he will never find out. I know someone who did something similar and got caught out by their boss.