I don't feel like i'm suited for relationships. your thoughts/any advice?

BrassicWoman

kingslayer wrote: »

i don't think i have a bad attitude towards women

You're wrong.

purpleshoes_2

Lily-Rose wrote: »

Yes I agree. And there are quite a lot of posters joining lately too, with almost identical issues about 'relationship problems' as 'kingslayer.' All varying degrees but still very similar.

One just posted a few minutes ago. Same poo different day ...

Forums gone bonkers lately, that's about the size of it

Am waiting for tonights cliffhanger, I was abducted by an alien now Im pregnant and the day they took me was the day I was supposed to sign on and the DWP sanctioned me what am I going to do?

Lily-Rose_3

dandelionclock30 wrote: »

No decent woman would go out with someone like you I'm afraid. So you might as well just forget it. You come out with things that Alan Partridge would say and thats very unattractive to any woman.

Alan Partridge! PMSL!

Knowing me knowing you; AH-HAA!



:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Indie_Kid

I''m similar to the OP. But I am not that fussed about having a relationship or not. I am happy single.

Lily-Rose_3

purpleshoes wrote: »

Forums gone bonkers lately, that's about the size of it

Am waiting for tonights cliffhanger, I was abducted by an alien now Im pregnant and the day they took me was the day I was supposed to sign on and the DWP sanctioned me what am I going to do?

PMSL

Seriously PS, consider going into comedy writing!

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl:

Seriously...

thorsoak

kingslayer wrote: »

but that could take a while. i don't even believe this "click with" malarky anyway. I think a person has to find the other person attractive, both physically and mentally for it to work.

I don't think i'm a bad looking guy (been told i'm handsome, good looking before now) and my personality is decent (i think), and i have many interests from art, to music, to travelling, to fitness/health, to cooking, so on and so forth.

I am not too picky either. If i find someone attractive, and i have many types, from black and white, to witty, eccentric, artsy, sporty, etc.

I would say i'm very open minded when it comes to dating, but either i'm always meeting the wrong women, or it's me.

This, to me, is the nux of the problem. You are not too "picky" .....anyone who is female and has a pulse is attractive to you and immediately you want to play jiggly-jiggly!

Go away, watch some films, read some books that are proper books not magazines (NOT just Nutz or Playboy) , learn about relationships and hopefully, you'd be so busy doing this that you won't have time to keep posting here.

By the way, whoever told you that you have a decent personality is wrong - people with decent personalities don't keep boasting/whingng/speculating about possible sexual alliances.

Tropez

dandelionclock30 wrote: »

No decent woman would go out with someone like you I'm afraid. So you might as well just forget it. You come out with things that Alan Partridge would say and thats very unattractive to any woman.

So you're saying his best shot is with crazy Eastern European girls with juvenile senses of humour?

Kingslayer, to Ukraine!

purpleshoes_2

In all seriousness assuming this isnt just a thread to get a reaction I would say that the OP needs to sort out his life before he attempts to get in a relationship with anyone or its going to be a complete disaster that the Jeremy Kyle show wouldnt even touch.

Sort out the issues you have with yourself and anxiety, the way you view women and stay off dating sites until you have done so.

Lily-Rose_3

kingslayer wrote: »

I'm hardly going crazy. I am trying to change my situation. There are a few people on here who seem overly judgemental.

:rotfl::rotfl::rotfl: Talk about the pot calling the kettle black!!!


After the things you have said about women on here?!

tea_lover

Yeah your attitude to women is perfectly fine - I mean, who doesn't accuse the woman they've just slept with of being a prostitute?